pretty_hurts Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 Fiance or boyfriend newly titled ex idk what titles to give him we are on a "break" we have been together for two years .I had enough of the constant lying its like if u lie about something that's so small u would lie about anything .but apparently it's just Me In his opinion because he lied before and it's hard for me to believe ANYTHING... I think he has a serious problem ..for example he is the type of guy that will convince anyone the sky is freaking green it's so pathetic. Our days consist of me yelling at him and us being distant .days that were just talking and laughing and playing feel good but I can't shake the feeling that he lies constantly in the past.we actually made love days In a row we live in the same house under certain circumstances I kept quiet about what he's been doing lately to better our relationship but I been stop wearing the rings I still kinda keep my distant like he is invisible to me In this house .mixed emotions
leia1028 Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 I have to admit, I was a liar in my relationship. It ended because I lied. However, I lied out of fear and not wanting him to be so upset. One example in my case, my ex was extremely controlling to where he didn't want me to even watch Youtube. Youtube was fun for me, but because i respected my ex's wishes i told him i would stop. But there were times my sister showed me a video every now and then and when my ex found out he was pissed because I lied about not going to watch it. For me I was always losing...I lie and he finds out he's upset. I tell the truth even (and he's equally upset). I tell the truth and I get upset that he's acting that way even after I'm being honest (he blames it on me). Even when i tell the truth and try to make him feel better since sometimes the truth hurts (he's still angry). I felt so much pressure, because he was on my case wanting every microscopic detail of information (which is difficult to remember every second of information and every word said in a situation). Sometimes people need to figure out WHY someone lies. I do know how wrong lying is, but i was scared to face his angry/emotionally abusive side so i lied out of fear. If i tell the truth, I don't want to be treated in a terrible way. Anyway, that's my personal story. But if your ex can be manipulative and lie about anything, it's best you're not in the relationship. First figure out why he lies, talk to him about it. Maybe there is miscommunication.
Mi7522 Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 i think both of you should walk away from these relationships, they sound as though they are very unhealthy
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