DatingDirection Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 I met a really hot guy two days ago. He messaged me, and asked to meet with me. How long should I wait to reply to him, and say sure that sounds good? P.S he's so cute, and charismatic, im surprised he asked me out. He's not from Canada, so maybe that's why he actually got the nerve to ask me out. He's very manly, not shy at all. I'm a bit shy actually, and im not even sure if he asked me out as a friend, or if he wants to get together, as in a date. either way, im flattered that he wants to meet with me again, and hear my thoughts. At the same time, im a bit geeky, and shy, i don't really put out too much of the "cat women" flirtatious vibe, im more of a sweet girl next door, mystery kind of gal, and im pretty sure that's very different than the women he is use to meeting. i just want to be myself when we do meet, and i don't really want to pull that whole "cat women" persona. I could if i wanted to, but really he'll see through that, and know, that's not me.
gaius Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 A couple hours should be fine. Something that says interested but a little hard to get. 1
oberkeat Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 Don't play games. Don't worry about whether you're replying too soon or whatever. Just say, "Sure, when's good for you?" There's no need to play hard to get.
devilish innocent Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 There's no reason to wait. If you want to be yourself, then just send the response now.
jasxo Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 I don't think guys read into that kind of stuff too much... Just reply when you want and be natural during the date 1
clia Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 You should reply whenever you have time to reply.
Vintage79 Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 Games are awful - just respond...you don't know him, he doesn't know you. If he's so cute, he probably has a ton of numbers of people he's chatting with...it's better to stay high on his radar at least until you meet him. Just match his text volume and speed (i.e. don't send him 10x more texts that he sends you, and if he takes 5 minutes to respond, take just a bit longer - but no need to wait a day).
Mrin Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 There's no reason to wait. If you want to be yourself, then just send the response now. This. Quoted for truth.
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