simplybrill Posted April 5, 2005 Posted April 5, 2005 I broke up with my ex 10 months ago, and we hooked up in October and November and then stayed away from each other until 2 weeks ago when I ran into him. We didn't do anything, just talked and we had lunch last week. Before we had lunch...he talked to me like we were dating again...and was like "you know we're gonna end up having kids one day" joking around and whatever. So we had lunch, and we kissed...and that was wierd, because he wanted to kiss in his car? Yeah...wierd and kind of creepy embarassing. Im not gonna climb over your stick shift and make out with you dude, just because we were intimate at one point. Its just frustrating. Dont talk to me about kids and how you miss me, and then slip into this lazy attitude all over again. It almost like he thinks if he talks a big game to get what he wants, and puts in little effort he wont get hurt again. (I broke up with him) I shouldnt have even had lunch with him. I havent talked to him since that day. I just regret letting him reel me in again. I need help on how to stay as far away from possible, because whenever I see him, we're like freakin magnets.
Marshbear Posted April 5, 2005 Posted April 5, 2005 I shouldnt have even had lunch with him. I havent talked to him since that day. This is very true. Your resolve needs to be like the words you wrote (NC). To see each other when you still have feelings just prolongs the hurt and delays the healing process. I just regret letting him reel me in again. I need help on how to stay as far away from possible, because whenever I see him, we're like freakin magnets. It's easy to think you can still be friends and it shouldn't bother you but you are fooling yourself if you think you can control the situation. It's hard to let go when you still have contact. If you have to turn around when you see him coming then that is what you should do. You need to ignore him, not speak to him and let him get the message that you are serious. If he thinks he can worm back in then he will find that vulnerable spot and exploit it. Be strong... (NC)
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