Brentune Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 Has anyone here become the crazy ex? I'm a perfectly rational and sane person so I like to believe. After my break-up which was very sudden and surprising (due to cheating) I started to believe maybe I'm not so sane. I had a gut feeling that my relationship ended due to a third party member but couldn't prove it. So I went looking for answers and whenever I found them and confronted my ex she would flip it around on me so that I looked like some stalker, psychopath, that would "make up scenarios". She even went and told co-workers about it. Yet every time she would "block me" and come crawling back every 2-3 days trying desperately to be "friends".
Mi7522 Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 Has anyone here become the crazy ex? I'm a perfectly rational and sane person so I like to believe. After my break-up which was very sudden and surprising (due to cheating) I started to believe maybe I'm not so sane. I had a gut feeling that my relationship ended due to a third party member but couldn't prove it. So I went looking for answers and whenever I found them and confronted my ex she would flip it around on me so that I looked like some stalker, psychopath, that would "make up scenarios". She even went and told co-workers about it. Yet every time she would "block me" and come crawling back every 2-3 days trying desperately to be "friends". You may want to cut all ties. From the little amount of info you've given I don't really think this is a healthy relationship, there's no trust
Tarot777 Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 Yup, I'm the crazy ex, I never have been before. He blocked me. The reason is because he would insult me, then hang up mid conversation when I tried to say something, he would do this many times, I became so frustrated I called him back repeatedly only to be hung up again, then he'd say something like " you have 2 mins" then hang up after 2 mins in the middle of my talking. Not proud but I lost it on him. He's a coward who hides behind his phone anyway. I'm glad he blocked me because now I can't talk to him and can move on. No driving by, looking at FB, breaking into email, showing up un expectantly, talking to his friends or anything like that. I just called a lot, and sent a few nasty texts. But I haven't in a week tomorrow. Kinda over him though, I lost almost all my respect for him.
Sweetescape910 Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 You're not crazy, you're emotional. The second you put yourself down is the second you lose sight of who you truly are. Don't be so hard on yourself. Seriously, every person has gone through it. Learn from it and mature and move foward from an unhealthy relationship
Ruby65 Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 Cheaters deny -- and then put the blame on YOU for accusing them of cheating! That's just the standard M.O. It's crazy-making.... gas-lighting.... I think most people who've been cheated on have been there. Don't blame yourself! I hope your cheating ex is still that.... your EX.
pandapop17 Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 I know how you feel .. my relationship of 7 years ended completely out of the blue, I didn't see it coming, so you can imagine my reaction when I was then expected to cut all contact with him, when an hour before it was a normal day. I feel like a pathetic begging idiot, but I can't let it go. I can tell you though, once a cheat, always a cheat. You can do better than this, don't give in to her and don't beg or let her make you feel as though you're in the wrong.
CrystalShine2011 Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 Leave it all behind, you'll be better for it.
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