SOS: what does he want??

[fayeresh]

I met a guy on campus around September, and I didn't really pay attention to him. I would hang out with him and his friends, but I was never really romantically interested because I always thought of him as way out of my league (super gorgeous/smart/successful/4 years older)...the game has changed since then. A friend of mine gave him my number before first semester was over, convinced that we're soulmates. Anyway, he started texting me, but I'm not much of a texter so I rarely reply, unless the conversation is super important and/or interesting. Recently we've been spending more time together. He invites me over, we go out publicly together (to the mall, out to eat, etc.), I've met his friends (who all think there's something between us), and just things you would expect to do in a relationship. Whenever I go over we cuddle and play around, but I'm not ready to have sex with him just yet so he backs off and doesn't make me feel bad for it AT ALL which is new to me. He pays for dinner, and we have really amazing/deep conversations. The thing is I have extreme trust issues. I'm not sure how to handle something like this. I creep on his twitter (of course) and he favorites a LOT of girls' tweets. Nothing suggestive, but it's still irking you know? I just don't know how to trust him and how to know if he wants something more than just a **** buddy. Please help if you've been in a similar situation or have an idea of just what might be happening with "us". This is the first real guy I actually see a future with.

 

Sorry if tl;dr.

[Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646]

Sounds like a nice guy. Just take things at the pace that is good for you. Don't worry about him favoriting other girls on Twitter, that's something a jealous stalker GF would do =P

 

 

As far as "what he wants" you will have to talk to him. Maybe he wants you guys to be a couple, or maybe just friends. You'll never find out until you talk to him. And yes - hold off on sex until you know where you stand with him.