Vintage79 Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 I'm wondering what the typical dating schedule is when you just met someone. Is once a week the norm, or is it more frequent than that (2-3 times/week). If it's once per week, at what point in time should people start seeing each other more frequently? I'm in the early process, and don't want to scare people off with either too much or too little. I realize that it's highly dependent on who you're dating...
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 Whatever you're both comfortable with. 3
Popsicle Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 In my past relationships, the chemistry and connection was electric and all we wanted to do was be together, so we never missed a day. It started as soon as we laid eyes on each other. That is the way I like it too, and dare I say, the only way I would have it. If I don't want to see you everyday (even when you're temporarily out of town) then something is wrong.
TheLonesomeWarrior Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 It depends on your guys' relationship. Some people advance to seeing each other more often, which means 2-3x's a week. However, in other situations, such as mine, my GF and I work different shifts for our jobs, and I also sometimes have to work all day on weekends. Hence, we only get to meet once a week. Good luck!
Eternal Sunshine Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 about 2x a week. I need a lot of space so seeing someone every day is unthinkable for me. 1
veggirl Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 I would say about 2x a week, maybe 3. Honestly more than an average of 3x per week, period, is a bit much for me. I like my me time, a LOT! I've never been one of those people who wants to see someone every day or 6x a week.
BluEyeL Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 Once or twice a week in the first couple of months. What goes up as a rocket, comes down like one too.
Gaeta Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 It depends on your schedule and the distance between you. My last boyfriend was 40km away on opposite side of town so we saw each other on average 2-3 times a week and that involved staying over. When I dated men that lived just a few minutes away we had more dates and visits because it was easy to just meet for breakfast or a couple of hours without having to re-arrange our schedule and seeing each other did not implicate staying over.
d0nnivain Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 There's no magic #. It's a function of the people, their desire & their schedules. Daily is probably too much but 1 - 3x per week gradually increasing is fine. Don't count or you will make yourself crazy.
shebsheb1137 Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 I'm wondering what the typical dating schedule is when you just met someone. Is once a week the norm, or is it more frequent than that (2-3 times/week). If it's once per week, at what point in time should people start seeing each other more frequently? I'm in the early process, and don't want to scare people off with either too much or too little. I realize that it's highly dependent on who you're dating... I have been with my boyfriend for 11 months, and for those 11 months, we saw eachother twice a week about half the time, otherwise, it was once a week. Now, I am going to be moving in with him and I am looking forward to it. Some people are hesitant on it, but throughout the holidays, we saw eachother everyday and had no issues. The reason we only saw eachother 1-2x a week is due to the fact that I work at a gas station, and my schedule was never the same.... But we made it work because we had to.
GTR King Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 I would say do what ever's best for you both at the start it should be about once a week etc then more once you 2 have been together for a little while
Gary S Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 (edited) In the beginning, mirror them. But women often don't ask men out in the beginning, so there is no feedback to mirror. Confusing, isn't it?! In that case, you go slow. Call her for a date once a week. When things heat up... which could be anywhere from right away to 3 weeks or so (if it's ever going to happen with this one), you can date as often as you would like. How will you know when things heat up? - belive me, you'll know... she'll make it known Edited February 22, 2015 by Gary S
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