Msrxchef Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 I met a guy online. At first, I did not want to pursue a relationship or anything serious. I honestly was looking for friendship/fun. But after our first date/meet-up which was beyond perfect, he consistently texted me, called me and wanted to spend time together. He always said he was attracted to me and ended up saying he loved me. I guess attraction is possible, but as far as love I don't know if that would be a possible feeling after a month of seeing each other. During our breakup talk he wanted to still see me but he was very confused when trying to explain himself. I don't believe in friends with benefits or long distance relationships. I also thought we were casually dating and was going to end it when I moved out of the city. However he didn't want to prolong our relationship. He also said he had been thinking about it for this past week and I have no idea what to do now. I am obviously very sad and I don't want to think about him. I really want to be proactive about my work and future. How do people deal with breakups? I feel like he decided to bring up the subject more for himself than for me because he said he was feeling "attached". Despite me not expecting for this relationship to last, I am still in despair. I have yet to tell my few friends about our breakup. My parents do not know I was in a relationship because it was only a month. I really wish we could see each other and casually date but it didn't seem like he was able to do (nor do I trust myself that can happen) so I said it's probably better we just not see each other at all.
darkbloom Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 Are you looking for advice on how to handle the situation? I'm not sure really what you are asking for.
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