pepsimax Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 (edited) Hi, Wasn't sure where to post the question. I met a guy a year ago and we saw each other a few times. We didn't have sex (just some touching) and we weren't dating. 5 months ago he phones to tell me that he can't be in touch as his ex-girlfriend wants to give it another chance and he decided to go along with it. He said if things don't work out he will be in touch as he liked me...(yea right!) Lo and behold indeed yesterday he phoned. He broke up with her. Now, I know he doesn't want anything serious or isn't build for a relationship like he confessed...so why on earth be in touch with me again? He knows I am more of the serious type. And it's not like we know each other for years or were madly in love...so why on earth did he contact me again? My friend said coz he probably likes me and is attracted to me. I think coz he is bored the **** out of his mind What could be the reason? Thanks Edited February 21, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator edited for paragraphs and removed link to image.
RedRobin Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 Do you really need to ask? Because lots of guys can't help trying to tap that one more time just to see if they can. Doesn't matter what you told him before about being the more serious type... if you respond, he'll likely keep trying. Especially after a breakup. He's thumbing through his little black book looking for options. I wouldn't read too much into it other than that. 1
newmoon Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 how amazing do you look if 5 months later you're still single and super eager to respond to his booty call? think a bit more on it. he's not into you, he's into finding out if you're up for sex. yeah, he's bored and just looking for a hook-up.
The Poster Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 I'm not saying his goal isn't to hook up, but how can you really know unless you find out? Just assuming he wants sex is a bit cynical, IMO. Of course, that could easily be what he wants, but he could also legitimately want to date you. If you are interested in him, talk to him. Meet up with him and see what happens.
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