Anmrd Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 I just recently got a new job as a nurse at a facility I used to work in this facility has two companies I work on a separate side don't have to see him or he won't ever see me if I make sure of it. I used to work on te side he still works in and that's where we met we dated for over 4 years but it didn't work out I don't think we were ready for each other and needed to find ourselfs. We didn't end of on completely bad terms but not great either. I have been told all he does is party and hook up with girls. I moved on I have a bf and live with him now. Well on that orientation date they took us on a tour of the whole facility and we passed by his department when he saw me he looked like he didn't know what to do like he was in shock and didn't want to see me he hide and couldn't even look at me. The person giving us the tour wanted to introduce him and called his name and he just walked away. I'm confused we are adults I don't understand why he acted like that.
Stercrazy Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 When he saw you I'm sure all those feelings came rushing back from the breakup. He probably felt incredibly overwhelmed and awkward.
BC1980 Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 His first instinct was probably to avoid you because he was shocked to see you. You've had a little time to process the fact that you might see him, but he was in shock. The setup was also awkward because you were in a group. It might have been different if you had run into each other at the grocery store, one on one. I actually work at the same hospital as my ex, so I can relate somewhat. He left the hospital when we were still dating, but I found out through the grapevine that he was returning. When we were finally forced to have an interaction, we hadn't spoken in a year, so it was weird. We had a bad ending, so I haven't wanted anything to do with him since. He was trying to start small talk, but I just walked away like I had something I needed to do. The last time I saw him, I just walked by like I didn't see him. He looked at me but didn't say anything. Try not to read too much into the fact that your ex walked away. People react differently to exes, and you might never know the reason. I think it mainly has to do with the fact that he was completely blindsided to see you, and you can never tell how you might react in that situation.
Flabreakup Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 Just happen to read this and it made me think about my own situation. Ex and I were together for four years and have a two and half year old. She left three weeks ago because I didn't treat her right and show her I cared often. She just passed her rn exam and we have been talking about baby steps and things. One day we're talking about trying to work things and the next we're not. But I'm a little worried she going to start working in a hospital In a week or two and it just seems these places are hotbeds for people finding others to date or start relationships with. Should I be worried?
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