house13um Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 I know a lot of people today do their best to move on after marital separation, most of all just to survive. And I did this too for a while over last summer, just trying to keep my head above water and deal with having lost my wife. But I know not everyone wants to abandon their vows. And, of course, reconciliation is possible for some. There's a bunch of people who want just as badly to remain faithful to their vows and allow reconciliation to be possible as they want to make it through the day-to-day. After having had a relationship of my own post-separation, as well as just living by myself for a while, I decided I wanted to remain faithful. But other than some Christian sites and this one, there isn't a lot of support for this approach. So, I'm writing on it (of my own volition and unpaid, for moderator's note) at a blog called Vows Beyond Separation. I wanted to share this here because, although I don't post at all here, I used to troll around the earlier part of last year, and I know there are at least a handful of people looking to do right by both their marriage and the lives of their ex / themselves. I'm struggling through this lifestyle right now, and I want to share my journey (more like musings) with others. I don't see any immediate issues with posting this in this section or anywhere in the rules, so if you'd like, have a look. Otherwise, moderators can moderate. 2
TashaTudor Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 I agree there isn't alot of support for people who want to stay true to there vows. I think its commendable when a person stays faithful during separation. Not alot of people who can or want to do this. To me, married people should only move on to new relationships when the marriage is finally dissolved legally. Just my opinion. Good luck to you.
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