Author SearchingForMyself Posted February 21, 2015 Author Posted February 21, 2015 I'm sorry, but I don't agree... Same way you see this chick as your "option", the same way I could see one of these "hook-up" dudes as my only "option"....So, in essence we "both" don't have "options". I consider an "option" a guy that has what I'm looking for, but for some reason other than my decision, we cannot get together (i.e. distance). I do not see two guys who just wanted to get their penises wet as "options" for me. So, again, neither you nor I have "options"...lol. What's funny is that she said there was two reasons why we couldn't be officially together Our age and distance(though we've had sex) So I kinda understand your point.
Maleficent Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 Me, invested in her? Maybe a little. Either way...it feels like lately a lot of women seem to hate men. Hum waitwhat? How did we go from the woman in your OP to 'a lot of women hate men'?
CrystalShine2011 Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 Find someone that will put you as #1?
preraph Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 I have to agree that this kind of manic need for sex and/or validation is not a healthy liberated woman but a very unhealthy one. I am not against random sex because I came of age in the 60s and 70s before disease, but someone who does too much of anything with no discernment is not a healthy person making healthy choices. Something going on there besides simple horniness. 1
TigerLilly78 Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 I know of one "open relationship" and they are never really happy its just a excuse to use some one on a "deeper level" im sorry this women sounds like the town bike everyone's gotten a ride..LOL why are you lowering yourself to that? even just for sex its gross its like having sex with all those guys as well..ewww just eww 1
Maleficent Posted February 21, 2015 Posted February 21, 2015 I know of one "open relationship" and they are never really happy its just a excuse to use some one on a "deeper level" im sorry this women sounds like the town bike everyone's gotten a ride..LOL why are you lowering yourself to that? even just for sex its gross its like having sex with all those guys as well..ewww just eww I know a few people in open relationships. They are actually working really well but there's more to it than 'seeing other people'. One couple actually choose and get to know their other partners together...
Author SearchingForMyself Posted February 23, 2015 Author Posted February 23, 2015 I know a few people in open relationships. They are actually working really well but there's more to it than 'seeing other people'. One couple actually choose and get to know their other partners together... This one's definitely a bad girl
Author SearchingForMyself Posted March 1, 2015 Author Posted March 1, 2015 If this chic had as many dicks sticking out of her as she does going into her, she'd be a freakin porcupine! LOL Recognize it for what it is - a fun time and some wild stories to share with your buddies. If you want a relationship or a commitment this is not the right woman. If you are looking for some crazy sex then go for it. Personally if I agreed to do the MMF thing for her I'd want the FFM in return. Whats fair is fair. This is where the messed up part is. Her words I;ll share two guys but I dont share with women. I want them all to myself. she doesnt like to share.... also, update. we met last night. She immediately said that I wasnt bad enough(shes into the bad boys, tattoos, gotta be tall, and all) and tried to friendzone me while telling me all about the guys she screwed, all while im sitting in her house. she then asked if we could be friends, and if I wanted to watch her have sex with two other dudes she had 3 coming in. Needless to say, as soon as i saw that, she called me a nice guy. I left...blocked her, not even interested in her friendship. that date was the straw on the camels back, I deleted Plenty of Fish soon afterwards and swore off of it for good. Online dating is not for me
Author SearchingForMyself Posted March 1, 2015 Author Posted March 1, 2015 Most swingers don't get anywhere near that much action, just for perspective. She sounds more like a sex addict, and as such she is probably not being safe in her sexual activities. I think she would only be using you, and is saying the things to get you to let her. Good luck. she was. She admitted to me later when we met again, that she pretended to like me to get over an ex that dumped her. I got led on for months.
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