GoodDaze43 Posted February 20, 2015 Posted February 20, 2015 Now when we talk she say's she is still unsure if she want's a relationship, her feelings are a mess she tells me. I went over to her house she made dinner for us and we kissed and stuff. Next day I asked her how much time do you need and she replied she don't know. I stopped texting for 2 days and she kept messaging me, I finally replied she says she loves me, but just not sure if she wants to be in a relationship right now. She said it will be best if we don't talk to anyone else and also at clubs don't dance with anyone else. She says she only want to have sex with me and only me but when I bring up the question do you see us together still in a few years she answers I don't know. She text's me goodnight and stuff but won't put a tag on what this is. She also lives out here by herself and does'nt have many friends so I'm not sure if i'm, being stringed along until she finds better? We're both in our early 20's
PegNosePete Posted February 20, 2015 Posted February 20, 2015 Stringing. If she was trying to get back then she wouldn't say she was unsure. She would say hey GoodDaze43 let's get back together!
Toodaloo Posted February 20, 2015 Posted February 20, 2015 Stop taking her calls. Its going no where, she is just a bit bored and using you as a prop...
mightycpa Posted February 20, 2015 Posted February 20, 2015 If you're asking about getting back together, I have to assume you're broken up. IMHO, you need to do three things: 1) Immediately change the rules of the breakup relationship. Don't give your exclusivity away for free. Talk to girls, dance at the clubs, date and bang who you will. 2) Immediately stop asking her about the future. 3) Become less available. Do stuff with your friends, date other girls, play sports, join a club, whatever. Time with her should be regulated and scheduled. Don't drop by, don't let her do it either. In short, turn her into an FWB. You'll be able to measure her true interest in you soon enough. Be very prepared to see it wane. Don't put too much stock in it if you see her attention rise; it could just be a reaction to withdrawal. There is something about a sudden withdrawal of affection that brings out the mad love in people. Or, if that sounds unbearable, break it off completely before you get really hurt.
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