Author bohica Posted February 20, 2015 Author Posted February 20, 2015 I don't think you screwed anything. I think you just accelerated the inevitable. She had already checked out of dating you and was probably interested in someone else. You concentrated too much on her and her every move because she was the only one you were dating. If you had spread your attention to other prospect you would not have noticed her lack of attention and within 2-3 weeks she would have faded away. People can't pretend for long a couple of weeks at the most. Don't think this one was interested in anyone else and we both agreed we had no interest in seeing anyone else. I meant it. Too busy, not interested and we liked each other. Maybe your right I did accelerate the inevitable. Who knows. The time before this she definitely had interest in someone else, I later found out. I think people pretend one way or another for way too long...Years even. They either pretend they are in love or not in love. Pretend they like someone or for some reason pretend they don't like someone. I also think some people are so effected by there past that they let it effect there future. When they see potential they run in fear or seek out an excuse not to be with someone. Also, pressure from family to change there ways, find someone good, and to settle down a bit can cause someone to rebel when they see the potential in someone. Deep down it's a screw the establishment move....
Author bohica Posted February 21, 2015 Author Posted February 21, 2015 Don't know why this thread got moved when's it's about dating.. Plus, people are following it and offering constructive feedback. It doesn't help me if it's moved.
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