GTR King Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 (edited) I am really confused about this girl.... What should I do?? Been talking for over a month had great 1st date and she said she wanna see me again as she enjoyed our 1st date... So I suggested we meet up this Sunday (That was nearly 2 weeks ago) as on holiday till tomorrow & she said yeah sure sort out time nearer the date but can't wait to see you again... So I double check last weekend if she still up for meeting again she said yeah sure can't wait again.. The last few days she has been really quite & not texting me much (But hasn't cancelled our date yet) So I left it a day or so & she texted me 1st Yesterday evening about 10.20ish saying Hey, sorry I've been really quiet. I hope you're ok and enjoying your time away xxx I texted her Hey that’s ok… I hope your ok? Yeah I am thanks… Just been shopping and cinema today… You been up to much? So on Sunday what time would you like to meet at ask? Is 1pm ok for you? xxxxx No reply yet but she busy at work so will so can't text till after 5.30ish She did say she having a bad time and work etc... is it normal to not text much Between dates?? Should I texted her again or wait till she replies... Also should I move on or keep talking to her. I do like this girl??? and wanna see her again... Edited February 19, 2015 by GTR King
mightycpa Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Back in the day, when everybody had pagers, if you paged somebody and they didn't call you back right away, you felt like they were ignoring you when probably they weren't. But not everybody had a pager, so if you did, it was implied that you wanted to take and return calls immediately. Now, everybody has that problem without necessarily having signed up for it. I'd relax, and wait for the reply if I were you, Mr. Needy Texter. It's only Thursday. 1
Author GTR King Posted February 19, 2015 Author Posted February 19, 2015 (edited) Ok so I should wait until she replies to my message? I am used to texting and usually reply straight away to all my friends. Must be that she is not a big texter etc.. I find it odd that she hasn't txt me much lately but must be busy. I feel once she seen me a few more times and is more comfortable around me then she will text more but we will see. I am gonna wait till she texts me as the ball is in her court and up to her if she wanna see me. Edited February 19, 2015 by GTR King
Author GTR King Posted February 19, 2015 Author Posted February 19, 2015 Update it's all good now she has texted me and we sorted our 2nd date. 2
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Remember not to be too needy / available. Keep a little bit of distance/mystery otherwise you might be coming on too strong for some women. Once the ball is in their court, wait 24 hours before you start fretting.
Author GTR King Posted February 19, 2015 Author Posted February 19, 2015 (edited) Ok thanks Well I will let her reply to my text. I am gonna give some space as she is having a bad week. she knows that i am there for her and she can come to me for a chat if she wants to. Once she knows more better/feels more comfortable around me she will wanna see me more/text more. We meeting Sunday so all good if 2nd date goes well. thats the best i can do as best to take things slow Edited February 19, 2015 by GTR King 1
preraph Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Accept that she doesn't like continual texting and has better things or more important things to do with her time. Don't take it personally.
Author GTR King Posted February 19, 2015 Author Posted February 19, 2015 I understand she don't text much at moment but hopefully she will text me more in the future once she knows me better. Hopefully 2nd date will go well 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 I understand she don't text much at moment but hopefully she will text me more in the future once she knows me better. Hopefully 2nd date will go well 1) Have fun 2) Keep your expectations low - don't force things let them happen naturally. 3) See #1
Author GTR King Posted February 19, 2015 Author Posted February 19, 2015 Thanks that what i will do take things slow and see what happens etc.. No need to rush things and don't expect to much but it will all be ok
Author GTR King Posted March 12, 2015 Author Posted March 12, 2015 Update we have got our 4th date on wed Evening (With same girl) We text every few days e.g sometimes we won't text each other for 2 days then text loads for the next 2 days etc as wanna save the talking face to face/when we meet up as will have things to talk about. I am fine with that for now but would like daly communication in the future etc...
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 Update we have got our 4th date on wed (Evening) We text every few days e.g sometimes we won't text each other for 2 days then text loads for the next 2 days etc as wanna save the talking face to face/when we meet up as will have things to talk about. I am fine with that for now but would like daly communication in the future etc... Keep doing what you're doing. This early in the relationship, every few days is fine.
Author GTR King Posted March 12, 2015 Author Posted March 12, 2015 Thanks mate we texted all evening tues/wed (Good conversations) & I texted her today but nothing yet. now gonna wait till she texts me.... she always accepts my dates & communicates few times between dates Every few days is fine until we become official as will have more to say on the dates... will see how things go with this girl but it's all looking good so far
fitnessfan365 Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 You're making the same mistaken again. STOP being a texting buddy. Your only goal with the phone should be to plan dates that are relatively close in the future. When you set dates weeks out, and then text non stop, you're killing her attraction. So make a date for 2-3 days out, get off the phone, and talk to her in person. if she reaches out, let her know that you appreciated her text but are on your way out and will see her the night of the date.
Author GTR King Posted March 12, 2015 Author Posted March 12, 2015 Thanks for the advice i texted Tues evening (She texted me 1st) and to sort the date out then we texted a bit wed but now gonna leave it & text her a few times before the date next wed or might just talk to her face to face (Half time at football on Tuesday we both support the same team & sit near each other)
fitnessfan365 Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 Thanks for advice i texted Tues evening (She texted me 1st) and to sort the date out then we texted a bit wed but now gonna leave it & text her few times before the date next wed or might just talk to her face to face (Half time at football on Tuesday we both support the same team & sit near each other) If you have a date, that is when you're supposed to see and talk to her. That's the whole point. Since anything in good company can be a date, you should have just made your next date Tuesday when you watch the game together.
Author GTR King Posted March 12, 2015 Author Posted March 12, 2015 (edited) Should of done that but we sit in the same stand i sit in the upper tear she sit in lower tear but she comes up at half time (Which is 15 mins) to see her parents... she just texted me saying looking forward to seeing you to xxx I replied saying Yeah me 2 . I bet you will look lovely on Wednesday xxxxxx gonna leave it at that for now it's all good & thx for the advice Edited March 12, 2015 by GTR King
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