Joyvke Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 About 2-3 weeks ago my gran had to see a geriatric doctor for her healthissues. On one of the days my mum and me got asked to go with one of her doctors. This guy was a pretty young guy and an attractive one as well. I didn't see a wedding ring at least. Anyway I couldn't help myself but I kind of got lost in his eyes. Felt tension I had never felt like this since my relationship ended 2,5 years ago. I don't fall in love easy but damn this hit me hard. Althought it is more attraction than being in love. I had the feeling he was looking more to me than my mum but not really thought any of it. I said to myself it was and is probably nothing. Last weekend however I have send a message on facebook. Completely defying my comfortzone apolegising for sending him a message, not wanting to come across to him as a creep or stalker, if he would be interested in going for a drink or so. Here is the kicker he doesn't seem to be active on here. So I doubt I will get an answer on there. He is however on LinkedIn. Now all I can think about is how silly it would be to send him a message on there. I have tietze syndrom and he is a rheumatic doctor and I am genuinly interested in the subject as well. I really would like to have a drink with him even if it wouldn't lead to anything. I just don't know what to do right now. Wait till it has been a week then contact him on LinkedIn or just let it bleed out. Man sometimes I hate my brain so much. Types this on my phone. Not sure how the layout is going to be so apolegies.
mightycpa Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 I ignore FB too. FB sends you regular messages that you have a message from X. Don't stalk him.
travelbug1996 Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Not a good idea to pursue a man. I would suggest if you have to take your gran back to the office just be a lil flirty with him but don't ask him out.
Author Joyvke Posted February 19, 2015 Author Posted February 19, 2015 Mightycpa, Facebook only sends messages from friends and you only get a notification on facebook as well. People who aren't friends end up in the "other" inbox and they won't see it unless they happen to check that inbox. what's the reason you ignore FB? Also don't see why sending a message is considered stalking? I check my inbox to see if he has read it, that's all? Not a good idea to pursue a man. I would suggest if you have to take your gran back to the office just be a lil flirty with him but don't ask him out. My gran doesn't want to go back there anymore as she hates the hospital and is afraid to die there. Her heart only functions for less than 15% at the moment, so it's very likely the trip might make her worse. I've pursued other men which ended up in dates and/ or relationships, although we were talking through online media and irl. I'm curious why you say don't pursue a guy .
Rko28 Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Absolutely nothing wrong in asking a man out. How about going to the hospital and waiting for him to come out and asking him? More people should be upfront about asking others out.
Author Joyvke Posted February 19, 2015 Author Posted February 19, 2015 Absolutely nothing wrong in asking a man out. How about going to the hospital and waiting for him to come out and asking him? More people should be upfront about asking others out. That and calling I consider being a little too upfront (and waiting at the hospital even stalkerlike) , but yea I will think about a good tekst to send him. My friend said I should either call him or send him flowers with my number, but she's too much into romantic movies and things like this always ending up perfect heh.
Author Joyvke Posted February 19, 2015 Author Posted February 19, 2015 well I did send a message through Linkedin, so we'll play the waiting game. Prepared for a no, but that's what I would have gotten if I hadn't texted either .
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