Scaatys2014 Posted February 18, 2015 Posted February 18, 2015 I'm heartbroken. I started a relationship with a very dear friend whom I've known for many years. We found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago and vacillated between excitement and WHOA is this the right thing to do? We weren't living together and had only been seeing each other for a few months. He was very supportive, texting, calling, keeping contact every day, took me away for a romantic weekend for Valentines but still unsure about it all. I miscarried the other night. It ended up making me realize how much I really wanted it. He has gone silent. I got a perfunctory "are you ok? But he hasn't followed up or contacted me in 24 hrs. He has updated social media, but hasn't talked to me. I don't know what to do. His silence is killing me.
Philosoraptor Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Some people aren't comfortable enough to express themselves when hurt. On the other hand he may have had a weight lifted from him when misfortune struck. Very sorry for your loss. If you want an answer you'll have to ask and start a dialogue.
amaysngrace Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Did you ask him how he was when he asked you how you are? If not ask him soon. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Invictus01 Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 I am reeeeeally sorry for your loss. To be honest, I can't find an excuse for his behavior. How do you NOT support a woman you are with when a tragedy like this happens??? Got time to update the Facebook status but not check in with her? WTF???
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