Thaddius Posted February 18, 2015 Posted February 18, 2015 I met a girl at a club 4 nights ago out of town (2hours away) for business. I approached her 3 times. I told her right off the back I thought she was really cute and I spun her around telling her to dance with me. She just smiled and laughed but her friend pulled her away from me. This happened again on the 2nd approach and finally on the third approach I told her friend to let me barrow her for 10minutes and that we're just going to talk. We ended up having a 30minute conversation in the club where we connected, found out we're both from the same state and she gave me her number, until her friend pulls her away 1 last time saying they have to leave. I follow up like 2 hours later asking if she got home ok -- she replied saying she did. The next day, before heading back, we decide to meet up again and hang out. We hung out for about 3hours and I told her I'd drive her home since we happened to live 15minutes away from each other and she agreed to it. After I drove her home, she invited me in, showed me her apartment and room and I hugged her goodbye and left. We met one last time the day after because it was her birthday and we celebrated it briefly. During those interactions we text but her answers are usually really weak 1 liners or take a really long time to respond, almost like shes uninterested. However, first I wanna point out that we met at a club, talked for 30minutes and 12 hours later she got in my car and let me drive her home, which was 2hours away from where we were at and also lets me in her house. Shes always down to hang out, receptive to my phone calls and she uses my name a lot in texts, even when its unnecessary. ex. "thanks so much for blah blah blah, 'name'" etc. When I dropped her off at home, she texted me this: "'name', thanks so much for the ride. it was awesome to spend time with you, hope to see you soon!" Why is she so unresponsive in texts to the point where it comes off as uninterested? Maybe I'm overlooking this and shes just not interested?
preraph Posted February 18, 2015 Posted February 18, 2015 She's just not a big texter. A LOT of people do not like texting and realize that if you do too much of it, you have nothing to talk about when you do get together. It's not about you. Just peel it back and don't get pushy needing assurances. Get together more, text less. 1
Assada Posted February 18, 2015 Posted February 18, 2015 She is probably just incredibly dull. You need to think if you want to go out with someone like that
Buddhist Posted February 18, 2015 Posted February 18, 2015 Or maybe she's just not a txter. I find once a guy starts txting all the time it gets annoying. Why not just pick up the phone if you want to talk to me and have a proper conversation? And I also get the impression that innocuous txts like....hope you had a great day....are a bit of a time waste and throw away so I never respond to those. Basically people have stopped communicating with each other and instead txt standard msgs around. I get 12 txts a day, most of them time wastes. Just don't contact her now unless you are specifically asking her out on a date. That's it. No more time wastes and txts that mean nothing more than you are testing how attracted to you she is. Give up trying to divine her feelings towards you via txt msgs, it's preventing you from building a real connection. 1
preraph Posted February 18, 2015 Posted February 18, 2015 She is probably just incredibly dull. You need to think if you want to go out with someone like that It doesn't get much duller, though, than those people who text repetitive inane small talk back and forth all day.
CrystalShine2011 Posted February 18, 2015 Posted February 18, 2015 I don't text a lot, I actually don't really like it. Perhaps she is the same!
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