Author kart180 Posted February 26, 2015 Author Posted February 26, 2015 Dude I can totally relate to you. My parents are the same with wanting me to have an arranged marriage and all. The thing I did was follow their rules while I was dependent on them and once I got my own job and left the house I did whatever I wanted. yes which what I wanna do, but I'm not guy who wants to go to bars
Author kart180 Posted February 26, 2015 Author Posted February 26, 2015 Of course, it's obvious you have a good family. Here's the thing with the study partner (which is a good example) to illustrate turning things to your advantage. Try not to think so linear. Studying is not just for studying. I like to study alone too but when i was in college went on plenty of study dates where absolutely no studying happened! The guy probably knew it, I knew it wouldn't happen it was just an excuse to be together. That's what guys (and girls) with game do. Asking a guy to study with her is a safer way for a girl to essentially ask a guy out. So make sure you do all of your actual studying BEFORE you go on these study dates. Because your purpose of being there is to help the less fortunate student and socialize or flirt. For you, this is dating/flirting practice and you should think of it like that. Even if you set the bar a little lower and just consider it making friends practice. Every friend in your life will lead to you other things and other friends if you let them. In other words, try not to compartmentalize. yes good tips but I wish I could just even ask a girl out for even a study as my mother says never date I would set up with you a nice girl of Sri Lankan race. yea indeed every friend is worth it
Author kart180 Posted March 5, 2015 Author Posted March 5, 2015 I'm a virgin also which puts stress on me too.
CrystalShine2011 Posted March 5, 2015 Posted March 5, 2015 Keep trying! Build your confidence with online dating.
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