adiamond Posted February 18, 2015 Posted February 18, 2015 I have a few male friends, but right when I tell them that I have a boyfriend now, they get choppy and snappy with me and then we stop talking. Do guys normally do this? How do you make platonic male friends? Also side question, I'm always inviting my boyfriend to events that look interesting. He sometimes invites me to eat dinner with him, but I seem to be inviting him to a lot of events (only because they look interesting and I want to go. Most of them are free anyways). Would this be annoying?
mightycpa Posted February 18, 2015 Posted February 18, 2015 I have a few male friends, but right when I tell them that I have a boyfriend now, they get choppy and snappy with me and then we stop talking. Do guys normally do this? How do you make platonic male friends? Also side question, I'm always inviting my boyfriend to events that look interesting. He sometimes invites me to eat dinner with him, but I seem to be inviting him to a lot of events (only because they look interesting and I want to go. Most of them are free anyways). Would this be annoying? Do guys normally do this? NO. Maybe they want to bang you. Maybe they just don't like the boyfriend. How do you make platonic male friends? The usual way you'd make any friend. Would this be annoying? NO. You're supposed to do things with your boyfriend. He should do more than eat with you.
MrMeh Posted February 18, 2015 Posted February 18, 2015 I know I'll sound like the cynic here, but I think it's impossible to truly have opposite-sex friends. Of course, this depends on what you term as a "friend". Usually one of the two involved will be unaware that the other likes him/her, while the other will delude themselves into thinking that the other might feel the same way eventually.
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