MrS-C Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 Soo I'm 29 years old, I have a good job, have paid off my house, have a nice car, I'm OK looking (a tad short), nice body and dress well! What am I doing wrong in relationships.... My most recent was 6 months.. Up until the breakup I though I had found the one... One prior to that was over 12 months but she put me under to much pressure for kids etc. I socialise regularly... But can't seem to find someone decent!!! I do lack a bit of confidence approaching women... But from the outside you would never know. Is it me or am I reading into things to much. I'm 30 this year and did not envisage being single! Anyway rant over... Just felt I needed to get it off my chest!
SycamoreCircle Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 It does sound like you're saying, -looks check -job check -car check -home check -wife wtf? Life isn't assets. Take things as they come. What's your rush? If there's something about your sum total that has you insecure, I think we'd need to know more about you than what you've provided.
Author MrS-C Posted February 17, 2015 Author Posted February 17, 2015 No rush and I by no means measure my life by assets... I have a great friendship circle and family... I would judge it more by that. I'm just very frustrated with recent happenings in my love life, I am in no rush but I can't help but get down about the situation sometimes... Of you know what I mean
spiderowl Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 What do you count as a decent woman? Many women your age will be wanting kids. If you don't want kids, that could be fairly obvious to women you meet as your attitude will betray that (lack of interest when subject mentioned or your preferred topics of interest being elsewhere). Even women who already have kids will not feel comfortable with a guy who clearly doesn't want any. There is nothing wrong with not wanting kids; it's just it might put you out of step with women in your peer group. You might find more in common with much younger women or older women. Then again, older women who have already got kids might feel they didn't have enough in common with a younger guy who doesn't want kids. I think you need to think about what you count as a decent woman first, because until you know what you are unconsciously looking for you won't know why the women you are choosing tend to be wrong.
Author MrS-C Posted February 17, 2015 Author Posted February 17, 2015 Sorry the not wanting kids thing was a couple of years ago....i do want kids... I Just didn't then!
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