Mark1 Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 I have never had a problem talking to women. I’m very social, a really good story teller and pretty funny. The joke in college amongst my friends was that I knew every girl on campus. (Unf at that time I didn't know how to date, so it never went past being friends). The reason I am asking this is because I am indian, and that makes me think women are just being nice. Here are some reasons I think I might be attractive: -Not a virgin, had sex with a couple pretty hot chicks (8s). Gotten 12 BJs in my life, but mainly from 6’s and 7s. -Never hooked up w a chick when alcohol was involved -Drunk girls at bars like me (drunk actions are sober thoughts, right?), but its hit or miss. One night ill have a couple great interactions at bars, another night no girl will look at me -Married women in their 30s at my work kiss me on the cheek and tell me I’m “dreamy” and “handsome” w/o any trigger -Girls are very quick to talk to me/get to know me in class. Sometimes they are single, sometimes they aren't -Men say hi to me and head-nod when I walk past them (I’ve heard this is a good sign? Like they respect you?) -Black chicks hit on me ALL the time -Do okay on OKCupid, mainly with cougars -Cougars in general love me -every once in a while I get a woman who is really into me. for example, the other day at a wedding, airl comes up to me at a rehearsal dinner and says "are you single?" "yup" "good." She proceeds to buy my a drink, ask me to dance, and kiss me several times, and tells me "there'd better be more of this tomorrow (at the wedding/reception)" -My female friends are very attractive (hot girls don't hang out with ugly people, right?) -About once a day a woman will say hi to me and smile, on the street, in the hallway, at the gas station etc. But are they just being nice? Here are some reasons I think I might not be attractive -don’t lift -indian -preppy girls don’t like me -I don’t really have girls hanging off of me, or wanting to take pictures with me at parties/bars -gay guys don’t hit on me (I’ve heard this is a good sign, if gay guys hit on you it means you’re attractive) -do terribly on Tinder -Once women get to know me they show me more attention, meaning my personality helps my looks Just a quick example: A girl in lecture laughs at everything I say, and today moved a few seats closer to me as well in lecture. Asked me about my family/major etc. She asked for my phone number and said we should study together something. She is overall really, really nice. Yesterday though, she mentioned her boyfriend. So, what the hell? So I don’t know. The fact that I have good points on both lists makes me think that maybe I'm average. Some girls think I'm attractive, some girls dont. Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 So I don’t know. The fact that I have good points on both lists makes me think that maybe I'm average. Some girls think I'm attractive, some girls dont. But that's looks in general. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think JLO is freaking gorgeous - but I now of at least 5 people that think she's rather 'Meh'. That's the thing about looks - not everyone is into the same thing. But some advice here - if a girl thought you were cute and then heard you talk about how you rate women '6,8,9', etc. she maybe change her mind just based on that juvenile attitude. Link to post Share on other sites
mammasita Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 I don't know about your list and I don't really care because your list proves nothing.....especially because you're rating these chicks that gave you BJs and that you slept with. UGH spare me!!!!!!!!!!!! The point is, all I see in your entire post is that you're insecure about being Indian. I get it, I went through a stage where I didn't want to be me because of my background in my late teens early 20's. All you can do is accept it and stop questioning people's motives when they compliment you. Accept yourself and so will everyone else. Not every person will be attractive to the entire population. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Stop with the comparisons. Just be you. Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Look in the mirror - do you like what you see? Thats the only thing that matters. Link to post Share on other sites
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 OP you come off as a bit of a narcissist. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 You're probably good looking or so many girls wouldn't be talking to you who don't know you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mark1 Posted February 17, 2015 Author Share Posted February 17, 2015 OP you come off as a bit of a narcissist. a cover for my low self confidence. Link to post Share on other sites
taryntan Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Yes I am sure you are based on those bullet points. I immediately write off any guy that refers to women as numbers based on how hot she is though. You seem self involved and immature. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 a cover for my low self confidence. Well then you must be really good looking because lack of self-confidence will keep all but the most attractive men from attracting women. Either that or you're good at faking it and being very entertaining personality-wise. Link to post Share on other sites
CrystalShine2011 Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Everyone has different tastes, I wouldn't spend too much time debating whether you are or aren't...it won't change the outcome! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts