Short Guys can't get Dates?

[Toodaloo]

(Natural) D cups are as rare as rocking horse crap.

 

Theres nothing rare about height on a man though.

 

Heck of a lot of rocking horses in my family then... D's are tiny in comparison to our au natural chests! Scaffolding all the way... for us and nothing we can do with out spending a fortune on surgery.

 

I wish mine were as small as D's... I might be able to see my feet again.

[Moy]

Heck of a lot of rocking horses in my family then... D's are tiny in comparison to our au natural chests! Scaffolding all the way... for us and nothing we can do with out spending a fortune on surgery.

 

I wish mine were as small as D's... I might be able to see my feet again.

 

My family are all busty, too. My ex was FF and my daughter is already inheriting the same gene!

 

My DNA pool has swapped height for boobz!!!!!!

 

It must be a UK thing.

Edited February 18, 2015 by Moy

[somedude81]

I dont think there is a man out there who has rigid preferences on boobs- its a 'nice to have' because if you were to hold out only for a girl with big 'uns theres a good chance you will end up alone. (Natural) D cups are as rare as rocking horse crap.

 

Theres nothing rare about height on a man though.

 

I don't think I've ever heard a man say that a woman must have large breasts or he won't date her. Though women love to use it as justification for them not wanting to date guys below a certain height.

 

As much as I love big boobs, they really are just icing on the cake. I have never sought out a woman because she was busty.

[Toodaloo]

My family are all busty, too. My ex was FF and my daughter is already inheriting the same gene!

 

My DNA pool has swapped height for boobz!!!!!!

 

It must be a UK thing.

 

Well think yourself lucky. My family on both sides are either giants or tiny... Your positively normal by comparison!

 

We also have massive bottoms... great for opening doors when you have your hands full!

[CrystalCastles]

Does he have a brother?

 

I am glad that you have been so lucky brings hope to the rest of us.

 

Wow yeah actually he does! Good guess!

 

Thanks!

[Toodaloo]

Wow yeah actually he does! Good guess!

 

Thanks!

 

It wasn't a guess it was a question

 

let me guess..

 

said brother is equally as wonderful but also already snapped up...

 

Its the toilet analogy...

 

When you are looking for one, it takes you forever to find one and then the men are full of poo or otherwise engaged!

 

Agh well.

[Shining One]

This issue is exacerbated by OLD due to the poor search and filtering mechanisms. A woman can search for men who meet their height requirement, but a man cannot search for women who are accepting of their height. This is a huge source of the bitterness since men have to sort through all of the profiles before they find the ones whose requirements they meet. This is an easy problem to solve (from a technology standpoint), but it just hasn't been done yet.

[Rejected Rosebud]

It really makes me mad how many times there is a thread full of women saying how they date short guys and it's also full of men saying that no, no women EVER like guys under 6 feet tall. Or 6'2" I forget. Sure some women's IDEAL guy is tall, well I am sure you guys have your secret fantasy ideal woman who does not look like the girl you are dating!! I'll tell you one thing a man or any person who wants to blame any lack of success in life on something they have no control over like height is a big turn off, a lot bigger than a cool short guy would be!!

[NJ123]

This issue is exacerbated by OLD due to the poor search and filtering mechanisms. A woman can search for men who meet their height requirement, but a man cannot search for women who are accepting of their height. This is a huge source of the bitterness since men have to sort through all of the profiles before they find the ones whose requirements they meet. This is an easy problem to solve (from a technology standpoint), but it just hasn't been done yet.

 

This is why for men shorter than 5'10", they shouldn't even bother with a pay dating site especially. Why waste your money on a site where women are going to be extremely shallow, & not even about just height either.

[somedude81]

It really makes me mad how many times there is a thread full of women saying how they date short guys and it's also full of men saying that no, no women EVER like guys under 6 feet tall. Or 6'2" I forget. Sure some women's IDEAL guy is tall, well I am sure you guys have your secret fantasy ideal woman who does not look like the girl you are dating!! I'll tell you one thing a man or any person who wants to blame any lack of success in life on something they have no control over like height is a big turn off, a lot bigger than a cool short guy would be!!

 

As a short guy who really struggled with women, it really doesn't help me much even if there are one thousand women posting here that they love and date short men all the time. I'm still short and single.

[CrystalCastles]

It wasn't a guess it was a question

 

let me guess..

 

said brother is equally as wonderful but also already snapped up...

 

Its the toilet analogy...

 

When you are looking for one, it takes you forever to find one and then the men are full of poo or otherwise engaged!

 

Agh well.

 

Haha he's single! But he's 19, so if you're around that age it works!

 

As a short guy who really struggled with women, it really doesn't help me much even if there are one thousand women posting here that they love and date short men all the time. I'm still short and single.

 

That's not our fault you live in the wrong area. You should move somewhere where there are short-men-loving women! Which is not where you live, apparently.

[Toodaloo]

Haha he's single! But he's 19, so if you're around that age it works!

 

Oh dear lordy... Sooo not into cradle snatching... He is younger than my old foster/ step children are now!

 

That's not our fault you live in the wrong area. You should move somewhere where there are short-men-loving women! Which is not where you live, apparently.

 

I think its perception. As soon as we accept that we are the way we are and there is not much we can do about it, get on with it and just enjoy being who we are the better.

 

An update... was talking to a "short guy" 5ft 4ins a while back. He didn't respond and now has started looking at my profile again... why not just keep talking to me in the first place?

[Buddhist]

As a short guy who really struggled with women, it really doesn't help me much even if there are one thousand women posting here that they love and date short men all the time. I'm still short and single.

 

Then the logical conclusion from that would be that your single status probably isn't because you are short, but because of something else you are presently unaware of.

[DaniG]

I dont think there is a man out there who has rigid preferences on boobs- its a 'nice to have' because if you were to hold out only for a girl with big 'uns theres a good chance you will end up alone. (Natural) D cups are as rare as rocking horse crap.

 

Theres nothing rare about height on a man though.

 

Both the preference and the boob size totally depends on the region you live in.

 

Check out this post: thecoreofattraction.com/sexual-attraction-triggers-in-a-man/

 

There's a map with the average boob-size distribution based on the country... Sadly I live in a B country.

 

*****

 

Answering to the OP. I'm pretty tall but when I was 100% clueless about how to get girls, I already had a few (very) short friends with beautiful girlfriends. It's all about the mindset man.

[Toodaloo]

Both the preference and the boob size totally depends on the region you live in.

 

Check out this post: thecoreofattraction.com/sexual-attraction-triggers-in-a-man/

 

There's a map with the average boob-size distribution based on the country... Sadly I live in a B country.

 

*****

 

Answering to the OP. I'm pretty tall but when I was 100% clueless about how to get girls, I already had a few (very) short friends with beautiful girlfriends. It's all about the mindset man.

 

I live in A cup country... Perhaps I should move to Russia...

[somedude81]

Then the logical conclusion from that would be that your single status probably isn't because you are short, but because of something else you are presently unaware of.

 

Or that I'm living in an area where women don't want to date shorter men.

 

Or that it was obvious that I was exaggerating and that there really are only a few women that are happy to date short men, and that the majority of women have no interest in short guys, but they have enough decency to not post it.

 

The real problem is that there is no way for me to know if a woman is open to dating a short guy or not. Real women don't state their preferences like that. Also if a woman rejects me, odds are that she won't say it's because I was too short, even if it was the primary reason. I wish I could find out that a woman doesn't like short guys before I got to know her so I wouldn't waste my time.

[somedude81]

Both the preference and the boob size totally depends on the region you live in.

 

Check out this post: thecoreofattraction.com/sexual-attraction-triggers-in-a-man/

 

There's a map with the average boob-size distribution based on the country... Sadly I live in a B country.

 

*****

 

Answering to the OP. I'm pretty tall but when I was 100% clueless about how to get girls, I already had a few (very) short friends with beautiful girlfriends. It's all about the mindset man.

 

Well, guess I'm moving to Russia.

 

BTW, I love how Russia is red. Like that wasn't planned at all

 

I wonder how much of the breast mass is affected by fat though. Fat boobs don't really count because if the woman gets in shape, the boobs go away.

[organizedchaos]

Or that I'm living in an area where women don't want to date shorter men.

 

Or that it was obvious that I was exaggerating and that there really are only a few women that are happy to date short men, and that the majority of women have no interest in short guys, but they have enough decency to not post it.

 

The real problem is that there is no way for me to know if a woman is open to dating a short guy or not. Real women don't state their preferences like that. Also if a woman rejects me, odds are that she won't say it's because I was too short, even if it was the primary reason. I wish I could find out that a woman doesn't like short guys before I got to know her so I wouldn't waste my time.

 

Women aren't going to tell anyone why they rejected them whether it's bc of their height, weight, body odor, lack of chemistry, whatever. The most you usually get is that they're not feeling it. We all face that. I've been rejected for reasons I can't change either.

[DaniG]

Well, guess I'm moving to Russia.

 

BTW, I love how Russia is red. Like that wasn't planned at all

 

I wonder how much of the breast mass is affected by fat though. Fat boobs don't really count because if the woman gets in shape, the boobs go away.

Lol, yeah, I only can tell from Scandinavia. I can tell you it's not body fat —just boob fat.

[somedude81]

Women aren't going to tell anyone why they rejected them whether it's bc of their height, weight, body odor, lack of chemistry, whatever. The most you usually get is that they're not feeling it. We all face that. I've been rejected for reasons I can't change either.

 

Yeah, that's pretty much exactly what I said.

 

Also if a woman rejects me, odds are that she won't say it's because I was too short, even if it was the primary reason.

[insert_name]

It really makes me mad how many times there is a thread full of women saying how they date short guys and it's also full of men saying that no, no women EVER like guys under 6 feet tall. Or 6'2" I forget. Sure some women's IDEAL guy is tall, well I am sure you guys have your secret fantasy ideal woman who does not look like the girl you are dating!! I'll tell you one thing a man or any person who wants to blame any lack of success in life on something they have no control over like height is a big turn off, a lot bigger than a cool short guy would be!!

 

With respect, its the same as all the women complaining about OLD is only full of guys sending dick pics or whatever. Im nothing but respectful on OLD but what use is that to the person I would say it to?

 

Someone on the internet saying "I am proof that not all _____ are like that" means absolutely nothing because its not really challenging the person its aimed at. We cant assume that we know better than what someone else experiences in their lives, we cant speak for their region/culture.

[insert_name]

Both the preference and the boob size totally depends on the region you live in.

 

Check out this post: thecoreofattraction.com/sexual-attraction-triggers-in-a-man/

 

There's a map with the average boob-size distribution based on the country... Sadly I live in a B country.

 

*****

 

Answering to the OP. I'm pretty tall but when I was 100% clueless about how to get girls, I already had a few (very) short friends with beautiful girlfriends. It's all about the mindset man.

 

I knew learning Russian was a good idea!

[runitonce]

They obviously can but whether they can consistently get dates with their equivalents in women is another matter

 

 

Honestly, unless people post photos or, even better, you meet them in real life, its impossible to say whether its their height that's holding them back. All guys 5'7 & under are not the same

 

 

I remember years ago 1of my best friends & housemate was on POF & we were looking at profile reviews & I honestly felt bad for some of these guys. Yeah they were 5'5 or 5'7 or whatever, but irrespective of that, they weren't very attractive truth be told & I felt bad when people where advising them to tinker with this or that in their profiles statements.... because that obviously wasnt the problem!

OLD wasn't designed for them because they're competing for average women with, not only taller, but younger & better looking men

 

 

 

 

I think the problems occurs when a guy is, say, 25-35 & 5'7. If he has a nice enough face with thick hair, & is athletic enough to have broad shoulders with a borderline 6-pack, it's slightly offputting to be made to feel like he should be grateful to get a date with ANYONE.

 

 

he wants to date someone at least close to his attractiveness. Of course if you're approaching women, you're going to go for someone of reasonable attractiveness. My standards for women I approach is higher than the standards I hold for a woman who approaches me

[Buddhist]

Or that .......so I wouldn't waste my time.

 

You're wasting plenty of your time with these justifications and excuses and denying any shred of evidence to the contrary of your pet beliefs. I can only conclude you are very attached to your singledom and want to prolong it as long as possible.

[NJ123]

They obviously can but whether they can consistently get dates with their equivalents in women is another matter

 

 

Honestly, unless people post photos or, even better, you meet them in real life, its impossible to say whether its their height that's holding them back. All guys 5'7 & under are not the same

 

 

I remember years ago 1of my best friends & housemate was on POF & we were looking at profile reviews & I honestly felt bad for some of these guys. Yeah they were 5'5 or 5'7 or whatever, but irrespective of that, they weren't very attractive truth be told & I felt bad when people where advising them to tinker with this or that in their profiles statements.... because that obviously wasnt the problem!

OLD wasn't designed for them because they're competing for average women with, not only taller, but younger & better looking men

 

 

 

 

I think the problems occurs when a guy is, say, 25-35 & 5'7. If he has a nice enough face with thick hair, & is athletic enough to have broad shoulders with a borderline 6-pack, it's slightly offputting to be made to feel like he should be grateful to get a date with ANYONE.

 

 

he wants to date someone at least close to his attractiveness. Of course if you're approaching women, you're going to go for someone of reasonable attractiveness. My standards for women I approach is higher than the standards I hold for a woman who approaches me

 

OLD is a joke anyways though. It's just filled with shallowness. Like you said, definitely not a good place for a short guy when the women could put in their preferences to not want short men. I think of myself to be fairly attractive & go to the gym 3x a week, sometimes 4, but I'm only 5'7", maybe 5'6" without shoes so there's no point of me being on there with all the shallowness that goes on.