Vintage79 Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Ok - first meeting with an online girl - drinks, great conversation, discuss getting together over the weekend and I get a cheek to kiss. All day date on the weekend...went well, great conversation, she wanted to keep extending the date, but literally no signs of romantic flirting from her, no casual contact, etc. I was effectively dismissing her at that point. Didn't even bother trying for a kiss...a cheek the first time and no flirting was about it. We texted a few times, and then out of the blue, she calls. It was fun hanging out, so I figured I'd give her another shot. Again it was a 6 hour weekend date. Great conversation - she wasn't pulling away from small advances, but wasn't making any herself and when I touched her, I had the impressuon that it was fine, but she didn't seem excited by it...again, didn't even try for a kiss. Not that I was scared, it just felt a little dirty given her communicated interest...it would have been a kiss-rape. I wasn't thinking I'd contact her again, but the day after the last date she started texting me with inside jokes. Is she just romantically awkward and still somehow interested. Should I see her again and just force everything?...if I don't I already know how it would end up. Very confused here...
preraph Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 She just may be one of many women who expect men to make all the moves and advances and will just go along with it. You can't write her off. It's not that unusual. Kiss her on the mouth for god's sake. If you don't do it soon, the window of opportunity will close and you will be locked in a friendzone. 1
Author Vintage79 Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 That's the problem - she basically put herself in MY Friendzone...that's why I'm confused...no signs of romantic anything from her, but she keeps contacting me.
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