Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 I only did it because she text me first after the date. So I was like..."ok let go ahead and call. If she had picked up the plan was to find out her availability for this weekend and end the call. And then call 4 days later. But in all honesty, I never felt like it was a good sign that she never took her coat off. I interpret that as she wasn't too sure about you prior to meeting, and was ready to bail at any moment. She could have warmed up to you since -- but its definitely rude.
Author smg15 Posted February 17, 2015 Author Posted February 17, 2015 I interpret that as she wasn't too sure about you prior to meeting, and was ready to bail at any moment. She could have warmed up to you since -- but its definitely rude. So of course I kept my coat on because I was not going to look like a fool
Gaeta Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 You called at 11: 35 at night......how young are you? lol Did you leave a message? or text her to get back to you? There could be many reasons she kept her coat on. Maybe she dropped something on herself on her way to the coffee and she didn't want you to see her blouse was stained OR like one of my friends she is conscious about something on her body. I know silly but lots of girls are silly.
Toodaloo Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 Well you could be right, I called and got no answer. I did call at 11:35pm. Oh dear lord. You have just made her think you only want her as a booty call! Only my closest friends call me at that time of night. Anyone else gets ignored. It wakes me up and I get really pee'd off. She desn't finish work until 9pm so anything after 10pm would be a no go in the first stages of dating. Sorry but you may be complaining about her but I think you are giving the wrong signals too! Best to leave it and find someone more on your wave length. 1
elaine567 Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 (edited) Isn't calling at 23:35, not thought of as a booty call? Why are you waiting so long after she said she got home OK, to contact her again? Re the coat thing, it was either freezing in there or she mirrored you. Next time I suggest unless the temperature is sub zero, take your coat off. It gives the impression you are relaxed and comfortable in your own skin. If she bails quickly, or doesn't show, you then sit there, order another coffee, and read something, your phone, your ipad, a book, a magazine, which you took with you. Then finish your coffee slowly, put your coat back on and leave with dignity. Edited February 17, 2015 by elaine567
Author smg15 Posted February 17, 2015 Author Posted February 17, 2015 You called at 11: 35 at night......how young are you? lol Did you leave a message? or text her to get back to you? There could be many reasons she kept her coat on. Maybe she dropped something on herself on her way to the coffee and she didn't want you to see her blouse was stained OR like one of my friends she is conscious about something on her body. I know silly but lots of girls are silly. She text me this morning letting me know she fell asleep
Author smg15 Posted February 17, 2015 Author Posted February 17, 2015 Isn't calling at 23:35, not thought of as a booty call? Why are you waiting so long after she said she got home OK, to contact her again? Re the coat thing, it was either freezing in there or she mirrored you. Next time I suggest unless the temperature is sub zero, take your coat off. It gives the impression you are relaxed and comfortable in your own skin. If she bails quickly, or doesn't show, you then sit there, order another coffee, and read something, your phone, your ipad, a book, a magazine, which you took with you. Then finish your coffee slowly, put your coat back on and leave with dignity. Because she is a night owl like me. I found our this morning she fell asleep through text
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