masamune Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 I been dating this amazing woman for almost two months. Everything was great and she even spent the night at my place a couple of times. I been separated from my wife for two years and l got divorced a couple of weeks ago and she knew that and had no trouble with it. A few days ago she asked me for my fb. I had two accounts since one was full of pictures of me my ex-wife and some mutual friends that l didn't wanted to lose. Im from another country so most of the friends l made here were mutual and l didn't wanted to lose that. so l gave her the current account that l use. Anyways she told me that she saw my other fb right before our first date and that l gave her another..so l explained to her that even when l don't use the other well there was a lot of good things and memories l didn't wanted to lose but that l will delete it if that upset her. But the damage was done she got upset and told me she was a bit disappointed of me..we still went out to a concert a couple of days latter but she was cold and distant.. after the concert l asked her if she wanted me to walk away.. and that l like her but l know l made a huge mistake. She says she needs time for this not to bother her and that she knows l am a good guy but it did kinda bother her but she still cool with me texting her or asking her out Should l just let this relationship go? I'm getting mixed signals she was so cold and serious and l assumed that was gonna be the last date but now l really don't know what to do. I did left some flowers at her place days latter because it was her bday and she replied with a thank you!! and that it was very thoughtful of me. I do like her a lot but I also don't want to waste my time on a lost cause... she has all the right to be upset at me.. how much time should I give her? or should I just cut contact at all until she contact me? I also just copied my old pictures to a dvd and deleted my other account to save me troubles with this lady or with future ones.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 I wouldn't have made 2 accounts -- if you have pictures and stuff of your ex, you can set the privacy setting to "Only Me" so others won't be able to see them. That being said -- I don't think its a huge deal. In pretty much every relationship you're going to find photos of ex's both real, and on their facebook. Perfectly normal I'd say? By having 2 accounts you look like you're hiding something. 2
preraph Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Just ask her out. As sentimental as women are, she might eventually come to understand that it was kind of like your photo album. Tell her you've stored all that stuff away as photos from a past time now. I really don't think it's fair to ask someone to totally throw away everything from their past. It's a knee-jerk reaction. Just assure her that you are with her now. Take her out, be a gentleman and take a photo together to put up on your new Facebook and change your status that you're with her now. That ought to fix her up! 1
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