l2hvn Posted April 4, 2005 Posted April 4, 2005 i dated this guy last year. he broke up with me ("need some space, blah blah blah"). i have never contacted him since then. it has now been 9 mos and counting of NC. i've dated other guys since then. but he has always been in my mind. and fairly frequently these days. i don't know why i suddenly thought of him. i thought this whole time, i was over him. but i guess i'm not? so my question is, is it okay to contact him?
vickimonster Posted April 4, 2005 Posted April 4, 2005 Go for it, at your stage better to regret doing it than not! Good Luck!
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 4, 2005 Posted April 4, 2005 Has he given you any indication that it would be welcome? Has he tried to break the 'no contact' or get in touch with you?
Author l2hvn Posted April 5, 2005 Author Posted April 5, 2005 thanks VM. i agree. i'd rather not live in regrets. lucrezia: no he has not contacted me since the break up. i've changed cell phones right afterwards and he doesn't know my new #. but, i assume he still has my home#. if he really wanted to talk, all he could've done was call that #, don't you think? so... this is why i'm a little hesitant on contacting him. i'm not sure what to expect. i'm not sure if he would welcome that. i guess i just need some encouragement... or if it's even worth a try....
mixwell Posted April 5, 2005 Posted April 5, 2005 go for it.. by now who cares.. Its been 9 months of NC and you have gotten no where.. Obviously that route isnt working for you so why not ? I personally would if I were you. At least you will know where you stand ..
Pocky Posted April 5, 2005 Posted April 5, 2005 As long as you don't call with an agenda and you make sure to keep the discussion light, I don't see any reason why you shouldn't call.
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