preraph Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 I think you are tired of being miserable from the other times and just opted not to be now. That is within our power. 1
mightycpa Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 I would suggest that you stop feeling guilt about being set free. It's ok. Don't worry about it, just look forward. If little things like sending/receiving texts from friends remind you of where you are, then embrace that. We all operate differently, but it boils down to a question of whether or not you can trust your feelings. You don't. You should, and if you can't, work on that.
Author PearTree Posted February 19, 2015 Author Posted February 19, 2015 I would suggest that you stop feeling guilt about being set free. It's ok. Don't worry about it, just look forward. If little things like sending/receiving texts from friends remind you of where you are, then embrace that. We all operate differently, but it boils down to a question of whether or not you can trust your feelings. You don't. You should, and if you can't, work on that. I don't feel guilty at all, what makes you think that?
Author PearTree Posted February 19, 2015 Author Posted February 19, 2015 Somehow I can't bring myself to do it...
Zahara Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Unless you want to contact him at some point -- but why would you want to when he said he doesn't have anymore time and energy for you.
Kinetica84 Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Somehow I can't bring myself to do it... Just do it. Trust me. You'll feel better. 1
Hija77 Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 It's true. You'll feel better. My ex is a musician, so my iPad was bursting with videos of his shows. I put off deleting them forever. There was no reason to keep them. It's not like I was ever going to look at them again, but I still didn't want to do it. I did, though...to prove to myself that I could. Once it was finished, I didn't care one bit. All I felt was the return of a small slice of the pride he'd wrenched from my soul. Ha! Let's be real. If you really needed to get in touch with him, you could get the digits from someone else. Erase it now so that you don't do anything stupid with it. If you have to make an effort to get his number, it will give you time to change your mind. 10 days is a good start. It will get easier. Set yourself up for success and hit delete. 1
Brokenpenguin Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Yehh its hard to delete it at first it took me a good couple of weeks to get round to it but after you do it it feels so much better, i mean whats the point of having it anyway? No good can come out of it 1
seminoles84 Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Delete. Didn't really matter with me since I knew my ex's # by heart.
dyna85 Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Do it!!! It's empowering. Although, like seminoles, I still remember the damn number. Blah Still, don't keep that ish on your phone. You might accidentally dial him one of these days.... that would be very bad.
marcelo.santos Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Somehow I can't bring myself to do it... 1 - Write in the number in a paper 2 - put the paper in the box you already have (with all his belongs) 3 - delete the number 4 - feel better
Satu Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 You don't have to do it until you feel in yourself that you're ready. You'll recognise that point when you reach it.
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