lotenyc7 Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Hi all. I've had my eye on this girl for quite some time. I'm very much aware of her aloofness. We've hung out a few times. The chemistry between us is mind-blowing. We spent a night together about a week ago I didn't have sex with her because she was very drunk. Anyway she had mentioned that she likes me a lot and its why she's been avoiding me. I don't understand it at all. I am aware shes only single for a short while now. However, we've been communicating lightly for about 6 months. Just a regular once or twice a month check in. I don't want to rush into anything. But my question to any aquarian girls or anyone with experience of them, is how do I react towards her aloofness? She never initiates to hang out with me, I always have to ask, even sometimes kind of lure her to come out. I normally leave her a lone for a few days when she acts aloof and she normally comes back. However, I really want to take her out tonight would it be okay to entice her again or is it too soon?
Timshel Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Kudos to you for not having sex with her when she was drunk. Good call. I don't put a tremendous amount of stock in astrology but I can't deny that I have many Aquarian traits. Aloofness, being detached, I get. It's never a bad idea to pursue a woman you are interested in as long as she seems responsive in a reasonable way. Being an aquarian does not take into account personal circumstances and personality differences, however, if she is like me she will not be the pursuer or aggressor in the relationship. The great thing is we are also not needy game players. I am very straight-forward and always say what I mean and do what I say. To a fault really. I have been told I am "brash" a few times. Which ends up perplexing me because my assumption is that honesty is always desired. Anyhoo, despite any astrology, yes, pursue-ask her out and show your interest. She should be expected to be responsive and affectionate as any other "sign" if she is interested in you. If she is like me, you will know where you stand even if she needs space.
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