Joey15 Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Hi guys and girls, My relationship started with a girl i met in school when we were both 16 and became really good friends, it then progressed into a relationship. At this point we were in 6th form and then i left to do an apprenticeship instead although i would always go and see her after and we would spend every weekend together. She decided that uni wasn't for her and she completed 6th form and went into full time work. She was always asking me to come over to her parents house after work and we still continued to spend our weekends together and decided that after a year of being together and both of us working that we should get a place of our own. On October 2014 We signed a lease and moved in, We got on well before and it seems that most of our arguments before we moved in were about not spending enough time with each other. Once we moved in we were fine and got on really well. hardly any arguments. Nearly 6 months of living together on Friday the 13th of Feb she suddenly switched and stopped talking to me for no reason what so ever, bearing in mind that everything had been fine before and we were both were happy and spending time together. This mood continued into Sunday (15th) and i finally sat down and tried to ask her what was wrong. She wouldn't look at me or talk to me. later on Sunday she gave me a letter about breaking up with me, I was completely gobsmacked. i know shes been unhappy with her job and shes even found an apprenticeship near her current job for something that she really wants to do but hasn't really got round to doing anything about it apart from going to an interview which she did really well in and left it at that. In the letter she gave me yesterday she talked about being unhappy and that she just wanted to quit her job and go traveling. Also to further complicate things today we woke up kissed and hugged and both said that we love each other. What do you guys think? we've been together nearly 2 years now. And one last note, she texted me today at lunch to go pick a few bits up at sainsburys after work today and specifically asked me to go to the big one instead of the sainsburys local which is much closer. Maybe shes going to do something nice? Or im dreading comming home to find that shes walked out. ill keep you guys updated.
jus d'orange Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Do keep us posted, but I can't imagine this is going to just blow over. If she broke up with you, that means the relationship is broken and it's over. At the very least, the relationship is not healthy and consistent at the moment and the two of you would have a lot of work to do to fix it. Waking up and acting as if everything is normal doesn't mean it's true, so don't let that confuse you. At the moment, I can't really give any more advice because it sounds like there's more story to come.
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