Antipodes Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 (edited) Went out with my ex for around 16 months. Couple of breakups. Last breakup occurred just before the New Year. Didn't hear from him until he sent me a birthday card at the end of January. I rang to thank him at times I knew he could reasonably be expected to be home [like late Sunday evening], but ph not picked up. Like ?? Left message saying I was surprised to receive card and thanked him. I was so confused by mixed message though that I rang him at work to ask him why? He said he had received my message and had been going to call but his mother had not been well and he had been out and about. Which sounds classic he's just not that into you behaviour, but then why bother sending me the birthday card in the first place??? I said to him not to bother calling I had just called as I was confused about it all. I have not heard since then. The thing is that it is his birthday this week. Should I be polite and reciprocate or?? Thanks for reading. Edited February 16, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Paragraphs
PegNosePete Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Yes, he's just not that into you. He sent a card. Big whoop. Did that card express love, regret and desires for a reconciliation? Or was it a simple birthday card? You need to move on, the relationship is obviously over and there's no point flogging this dead horse. NC is the best way.
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