mrs rubble Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 These jokes are all at his expense, whether it be about jake and the bromance or his size, they're simply not funny to him coming from you, and to him it's showing disrepect which makes you not wife material. I was hanging out with a group of 22-25year old guys and girls the other day. There was a lot of sexual joking banter going on. One girl in particular had us in fit's of laughter as she took the mickey out of herself. She was going on about how she is "Au naturale" and her next boyfriend wouldn't need dental floss! My advice, try taking the mickey out of yourself and then see whether he finds that funny. 1
Elle1975 Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 Unless the guy is mounted like a pony, and knows it, I wouldn't joke about the size of his penis.. it's common sense.
Buddhist Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 (edited) Sometimes I look at it like it's unfair to judge me just based off something verbal but then I think maybe that's one of his standards and we all have those. Is this unfair? We have standards but sex jokes aren't a deal breaker. It's something I should probably work on but to basically say "you're not ready to meet my needs in a wife" cause of sex jokes is harsh Read the other answers, it's all been said. Edited February 17, 2015 by Buddhist
jazzybones Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 "Deal breaker" is the one word I hate. To me sex jokes are NOT. A deal breaker. Lying stealing cheating are deal breakers. You don't dictate what his deal breakers are. 2
Author MapleWish Posted February 17, 2015 Author Posted February 17, 2015 Thank you to photo finish for their answer. Not like anyone on this site should really have to elaborate or explain themselves but the fact that we haven't had sex yet WE BOTH make sex jokes are not connected. We're religious and think sex should be for after marriage, I converted my ideas about sex and decided it should be reserved for after marriage but we are both not virgins and will make dirty jokes. He laughs he thinks they're funny no where in my thread does it say he doesn't think they're funny and he's offended, he just noted that sometimes my dirty jokes go overboard
Rejected Rosebud Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 He laughs he thinks they're funny no where in my thread does it say he doesn't think they're funny and he's offended, he just noted that sometimes my dirty jokes go overboard OK but what you did say in your thread is that he thinks maybe you would not be a good wife for him because of the jokes, so if you are thinking you MIGHT like to marry him someday you should just stop them!!! don't you think?
lil_missy Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 I find it really strange that you make sex jokes when you haven't had sex yet and by the sounds of it not planning to any time soon? isn't that very awkward? u should only make jokes bout his size once you are both completely comfortable with each others bodies 1
todreaminblue Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 Those are the worse kind of sex jokes you can do to a man. You laugh at his manhood. Grow up. I would not date a man joking about the size of my vagina and suggesting my room-mate and I are lesbians. yes these arent jokes they are put downs.......not funny.....adn i think sex jokes shouldnt be in mixed company anyway......it can often give a wrong impression..... i often get told by friends and family i am boring now...because my wickedness is not here...i used to be a card....apparently...i think i still have a sense of humor but i have chosen specifically to make my humor more ....g friendly..and seeing i do not drink anymore...my sense of humor ...doesnt seem to be that way inclined....meaning sex..which i never really told sex jokes in mixed company..and i dont put down a partner in the sex department .....even when i did tell sex jokes....deb....
mrs rubble Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 Thank you to photo finish for their answer. Not like anyone on this site should really have to elaborate or explain themselves but the fact that we haven't had sex yet WE BOTH make sex jokes are not connected. We're religious and think sex should be for after marriage, I converted my ideas about sex and decided it should be reserved for after marriage but we are both not virgins and will make dirty jokes. He laughs he thinks they're funny no where in my thread does it say he doesn't think they're funny and he's offended, he just noted that sometimes my dirty jokes go overboard If he doesn't laugh at your "jokes" he looks like a tool in front of his friends. You just don't get it. 1
Els Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 he just noted that sometimes my dirty jokes go overboard So we have established that he thinks you go overboard when you joke about him, which is completely understandable. Now, what are you going to do about that? The easy solution is to ASK him the question you wrote in your opening post ("How far is too far?") and work out what is acceptable to him. That is, if you actually want the relationship to have a shot at succeeding. 3
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