I can't stop thinking about this one girl, and I am usually not like this...

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It's a long post. I hope you enjoy reading it, though. I would appreciate any input because I feel so caught up and don't know what to do...

 

I met a very attractive girl K at my best friend's going away party. She came with her roommate P, whom my best friend has known for some time. K and I clicked the moment we started talking. Quite frankly, the connection I felt with her was the strongest connection I've ever felt with a girl on the first encounter. It felt almost magical. Conversation flowed so nicely, and there was never a dull moment. She seemed as interested in getting to know me as I was interested in getting to know her. Chemistry was strong, compatibility was there as well because we had good understandings of our respective fields, and our personalities and interests were also similar. We didn't take our eyes off of each other. Soon we naturally started making out and had so much fun dancing and singing together. At the end of the night, a very unusual situation was created. Only 4 people (me, my friend, K, and P) remained till the end of the party, and it turns out both my friend and his hookup interest P were down to hook up. My friend J and P went to J's room to do their thing, and I was left with my love/hook-up interest K. We ended up spending the night together. I absolutely loved her company. We had just so much to talk about, and the great chemistry we had ultimately led to sex. I did not go to the party with the expectation of finding someone to hook up with because I have been kinda seeing two other girls, but everything happened so quickly. Now quite frankly, this is the only girl I think about now. There was no question the feelings we had for each other that night were intense. That same night I asked her what she would be doing Saturday (Valentine's Day ) evening because I wanted to go on an actual date. She said she might be down to meet up late at night because she and P had plans for the evening. She gave me her number and told me to text her.

 

I texted on Saturday to see what she was up to. She has responded to my message only once, and she did not reply when I asked her if she would be willing to meet up later that night. She is yet to respond, and I have not been able to stop thinking about this since the night we met. I have learned to not get attached to girls over the years even after sex. However, can't get her out of my head like that Kylie Minogue song. I have been asking myself so many questions. Did I fail to satisfy her in bed? Did her friend P's situation with my friend J have some impact on my situation with K? Was she just looking for one night stand? Does the fact that we are gonna end up on the opposite coasts in 4 months have a little bit to do with her behavior? Or is she just not that into me at all? Whatever the answer(s) may be, I am just so frustrated because I find her so attractive! I have learned not to get emotionally attached to girls, but I really want to see her again! Sex is cool, but I get that from other girls as well. What I absolutely about her is her personality.

 

Yesterday I had brunch with my best friend J and another friend who was at the party till the end and saw everything go down. They believe I should wait for a few days to make sure J's situation with P dies out and then send a text message to K to ask her out. However, another friend, who is older than me and amazing with women, suggested that I send her another message to ask her on a proper date PRONTO. I wrote a message that goes, "I absolutely loved spending time with you with on Friday! That night was quite a whirlwind, wasn't it? I certainly didn't see it coming. I was curious if you'd be interested in grabbing a cup of tea together. I felt our conversation was never dull at any moment!" The message was sent ~10 hours ago, but I have not gotten a response. I can't believe what's happening after we had such a strong connection. I know where I can go to find her, and I honestly feel like asking her out in person because I absolutely despise this texting business. I don't know what to do here... I just don't wanna give up my pursuit yet, but I don't know if I even have a shot at this point... It's an unhealthy situation.