Jay13094 Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 i finally decided to cut the guy i was dating forreal. He's the first guy i invested so much of myself in that this is has been really hard for me and while i find him annoying now, i still do have feelings for him and am in the process of "moving on". I have not contacted him, or gave him any sort of attention (he knows how i feel about him). he called me the other day, but it was to talk about some drama happening with our friends. I have sources that tell me that he has been talking ill of me, and also saying he doesn't care and does not want to hang out with me anymore. So when he called I finally told him everything that he was doing behind my back and saying about me. I asked why he's even calling/talking to me if he just wanted to "get rid of me" I basically told him im cutting him out and want nothing to do with him. He goes on rambling (not even owning up, or denying anything i called him out on) that he still cares and will always be there for me blah blah blah. Saying that his feelings for me were genuine etc. (have to admit, he treated me EXTREMELY well when we were together, before the other girl was in the picture).We ended the conversation, and then the next day he casually texted me asking if i wanted to go to a concert with him. WHAT DOES HE NOT UNDERSTAND??? I ended things b/c he was talking to another girl that he admitted to liking which is why i walked away. He's telling his boys that he wants nothing to do with me YET he's the one thats asking to hang out?? it makes me more frustrated cz he knows i know what he said.... i just do not understand. I don't answer him but can someone seriously just not get it??? Like he's saying that i'm clingy.. but i'm letting him go and he's the one still coming to me!!!
Sweetescape910 Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Hey it's me again! Lol. Sounds like this guy doesn't know what he wants with you. He also isn't owning up to his mistakes, and for him to come and act like everything is okay and you'll be on the same page as him is selfish. He isn't honest with himself, so he's not going to be honest with anyone else. You did everything right in letting him go, and maybe there's underlying feelings there, but you don't deserve a whissy washy kind of guy who's going to confuse you and not own up to his actions. Sounds like a wuss to me. Like you said to me, you dodged a bullet. I think you know what you deserve, and if that means cutting him off then it's completley okay to be "selfish" as in do it for yourself. He's selfish for the wrong reasons, but your being selfish for the right. Just keep ignoring him and move forward.
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