alexwood Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 it seems like every girl, if you dont text them first they complain that you neevr text them first, when you do text them first then you are annoying WHY IS IT LIKE THIS!!!!
thecrucible Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Are you talking about one situation with one particular girl? If a girl really likes you, trivial things won't put her off.
preraph Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Because different people have different expectations about frequency of texting. Personally, I think far too many people text far too much and waste what could be precious face time telling all their life story via text and thus throwing away any chance of someone reaching out to touch their hand in sympathy or their arm in agreement, which leads to romance. As you can see from posts on here, people are all over the place on it. Decide what is best for you and be up front about your texting habit as soon as you begin texting someone: example: I don't like to text much, so don't expect quick or many responses OR: I text about everything and go crazy if you don't text right back.
Author alexwood Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 Are you talking about one situation with one particular girl? If a girl really likes you, trivial things won't put her off. multiple girls
LostOnes05 Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 I feel the same as you alexwood. They are a strange breed. I had a girl text me quite often during the day. When I started to text her, she said your exact words. Needless to say we stopped talking. I've just come to realize that some women have no idea what they want. If they say they want to hear from you, and you actually call or text, they get annoyed. If they say they want to be in a relationship, and you express the same, then you're pressuring them. Quite perplexing logic and behavior.
Author alexwood Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 like i'll date a girl and not text as much and she'll say "you never text me first" then i start texting first and she will say "you have been texting a bit to much"
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