smg15 Posted February 15, 2015 Posted February 15, 2015 Im in the eastcoast area and tomorrow the high is expected to be 19 and the low will be 6. So I thought about calling her tonight and suggesting we postpone to Saturday so we won't have to be out in temps that low It does suck though because the weather has kind of ruined my 3 day weekend which means I will be calling out sick on a Monday the first week of March. So it's not a cancellation it's a reschedule due to dangerous cold weather.
d0nnivain Posted February 15, 2015 Posted February 15, 2015 Don't cancel. Dress in layers. Do an indoor activity. You will be found. 2
Maleficent Posted February 15, 2015 Posted February 15, 2015 The weather in my area has ranged from -40 C to -15 C since the holidays. Put some ***** clothes on. 1
Jessie1231 Posted February 15, 2015 Posted February 15, 2015 I just spent a lovely Valentine's weekend in a city whose high was 9 today, and I'm from a place where we just don't have temps like that. It was fun, lots of restaurants and indoor mini golf, etc. There are plenty of ways to stay out of the cold. Don't cancel.
spiderowl Posted February 15, 2015 Posted February 15, 2015 6 degrees is cold, yes, but you don't have to go swimming in the sea! Don't you have indoor places where you live? What guy would postpone a date because of the weather? I can't imagine that unless it's really dangerous, like freezing or below, or serious fog or hurricane strength winds. 1
Author smg15 Posted February 15, 2015 Author Posted February 15, 2015 I started getting the feeling because I went out to get some lunch and it was so windy and cold. Plus I am not driving so I would be more exposed to the cold than she would be which is why I thought about rescheduling Unless I suggest a place close to home where I can walk to it so that maybe a thought
GemmaUK Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Im in the eastcoast area and tomorrow the high is expected to be 19 and the low will be 6. So I thought about calling her tonight and suggesting we postpone to Saturday so we won't have to be out in temps that low It does suck though because the weather has kind of ruined my 3 day weekend which means I will be calling out sick on a Monday the first week of March. So it's not a cancellation it's a reschedule due to dangerous cold weather. The high is 19 and low is 6 and that's 'dangerous cold weather'? 6 is a daytime high at the moment where I live. I'm also confused as to why you are planning a sick day in March. Sick days are for when you are sick. I've never heard of someone planning them. 2
Gaeta Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 The weather in my area has ranged from -40 C to -15 C since the holidays. Put some ***** clothes on. We must be in the same area. Same here! 6 F = -14C I wish it were 6F this morning! -23 + windshield factor it feels -30. OP unless there is a weather alert asking people to stay home just bundle up and go to your date.
rocketman122 Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 If a date for a first meet cancelled on me because it was a bit cold id certainly not give them a 2nd chance. Man up and wear warm clothes Dangerous cold weather hahaha U go from the car to the restaurant and back to the car. Youre the man or woman? Hahaha 1
PegNosePete Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 If you're considering cancelling just because it's a bit nippy, then you don't seem all that interested in meeting. I would cancel, it's pointless wasting her time if you're not even interested. 2
kendahke Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Im in the eastcoast area and tomorrow the high is expected to be 19 and the low will be 6. So I thought about calling her tonight and suggesting we postpone to Saturday so we won't have to be out in temps that low It does suck though because the weather has kind of ruined my 3 day weekend which means I will be calling out sick on a Monday the first week of March. So it's not a cancellation it's a reschedule due to dangerous cold weather. Depending upon where you are, we're also getting about 5-10 inches of snow beginning tonight and going until Tuesday morning. So yeah, it might be a good idea to cancel for that.
Maleficent Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 We must be in the same area. Same here! 6 F = -14C I wish it were 6F this morning! -23 + windshield factor it feels -30. OP unless there is a weather alert asking people to stay home just bundle up and go to your date. We are! I'm from Gatineau Yeah and I assumed OP was talking about 6 C and I wanted to throw him a snowball...(got plenty of that too lol) 1
Maleficent Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 If a date for a first meet cancelled on me because it was a bit cold id certainly not give them a 2nd chance. Man up and wear warm clothes Dangerous cold weather hahaha U go from the car to the restaurant and back to the car. Youre the man or woman? Hahaha What does being a man or a woman have anything to do with this? Oooh, I see what you've done! You tried to ridicule his manhood by implying he might be a woman. fun.ny
Zahara Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Understandable that you're not driving so it's not the easy jump out and jump in. See if you can pick a place close by and if she's driving I'm sure she'll understand. Layer up, hat, socks, gloves and all. Don't cancel or reschedule since this is your first meet. Not the first impression you want to make.
Diezel Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 If she wants to cancel because of "weather", let her be the one. I once had a first date a few hours before a blizzard was about to hit. She never cancelled, so why should I?
Mrin Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Wait. Aren't you the guy who cancelled due to rain a while back? Smh No don't cancel. Cold weather is a great excuse to snuggle or at least make physical contact.
Author smg15 Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 The high is 19 and low is 6 and that's 'dangerous cold weather'? 6 is a daytime high at the moment where I live. I'm also confused as to why you are planning a sick day in March. Sick days are for when you are sick. I've never heard of someone planning them. Because I have only used one sick day since starting my job in 2013 and the month of March has no holidays.
Author smg15 Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 We must be in the same area. Same here! 6 F = -14C I wish it were 6F this morning! -23 + windshield factor it feels -30. OP unless there is a weather alert asking people to stay home just bundle up and go to your date. I decided to schedule for us to me around the corner from where I live so I won't have to be out in that cold weather too long.
Maleficent Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Because I have only used one sick day since starting my job in 2013 and the month of March has no holidays. That's what vacation days are for.... 3
Author smg15 Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 If a date for a first meet cancelled on me because it was a bit cold id certainly not give them a 2nd chance. Man up and wear warm clothes Dangerous cold weather hahaha U go from the car to the restaurant and back to the car. Youre the man or woman? Hahaha I was concerned about her getting sick which is why I asked if she was ok with meeting me today.
Author smg15 Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 If you're considering cancelling just because it's a bit nippy, then you don't seem all that interested in meeting. I would cancel, it's pointless wasting her time if you're not even interested. when the news said it would be single digit temps I just felt that a better time to meet is when it was not so cold. But i have decided to meet her 3 mins from where I live this afternoon
Author smg15 Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 Understandable that you're not driving so it's not the easy jump out and jump in. See if you can pick a place close by and if she's driving I'm sure she'll understand. Layer up, hat, socks, gloves and all. Don't cancel or reschedule since this is your first meet. Not the first impression you want to make. I decided to meet her 3 mins from my apt so once she text me that she is there then i can just walk around the corner.
Author smg15 Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 If she wants to cancel because of "weather", let her be the one. I once had a first date a few hours before a blizzard was about to hit. She never cancelled, so why should I? I guess when it comes to first meeting I always wanted the weather to be nice. I mean I may want to extend the date if things are going well so if the weather is not good then that may not be a option
Author smg15 Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 That's what vacation days are for.... saving my vacation days for May and June. And you do know that a sick day is for when you need a mental break too right?
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