krista28 Posted February 15, 2015 Posted February 15, 2015 I have been talking to this guy for the last two months now. We have been talking almost every day. We have been sending eachother pictures and become very close through that. Yesterday I told him I was going to go up to where he lives and meet a friend and asked him if he could pencil me in. He seems very hesitant to meet me. And after I messged him that morning that he dont girls let boys sleep on vday...and then I never heard from him again...nothing..I have messaged him a bunch of times since...but no response...I have no idea what happened...does anyone have any ideas? I have finally stopped texting him.
spiderowl Posted February 15, 2015 Posted February 15, 2015 Don't know what happened but it seems he lost interest. There is no point chasing a guy who has lost interest; it only makes them less interested if anything. You are better off finding someone nearer you by getting involved in local social groups where you have a common interest. Online is difficult, people can be too far away or not as attracted if they haven't met you in person anyway. At least if you meet someone through a social group who is interested, you know they are attracted to the real you, not the image they see online.
Author krista28 Posted February 15, 2015 Author Posted February 15, 2015 I guess that's true he seems to have lost interest. ..I dont know what I did.
spiderowl Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 Probably nothing. He probably just met someone who was nearer or that he already knew. Don't assume it was anything to do with you. People just disappear online. It can be disturbing but after a while you realise that some take it more seriously than others. Some are looking for the love of their lives; others are just dipping in to chat on and off. If you take anyone too seriously until you've met a few times, you will go mad.
Author krista28 Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 Thanks im just surprised and shocked..I guess the best thing to do is go silent. He must not have been very into the idea
Buddhist Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 I have been talking to this guy for the last two months now. We have been talking almost every day. We have been sending eachother pictures and become very close through that. Unfortunately most of the time this closeness is an illusion. Many people online just like having strangers as confidants, where they can let their stuff hang out without the fear of ever needing to meet this person, or build a real connection.
Author krista28 Posted February 17, 2015 Author Posted February 17, 2015 I really miss him and talking to him and I fear ill never hear from him again...
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