BetrayedH Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 What does the MM need "time" for? Does he have a courage garden in the backyard and he's waiting for harvest? He's "future-faking" with you and basically told you as much with his "What if I can't do the right thing?" nonsense. If you have the kid, establish his paternity and seek child support.
Mal78 Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 I would say I'm in friends with benefits kind of relationship. Getting pregnant again from a MM would be just impossible since I'm not having sex with him (or any other) ever again. This one time was more than enough. I just hope someone can learn from my stupidity and this experience in general. It only takes one time. You very well learned that the hard way. It sounds like you have a potential answer/plan. I wish you peace and happiness soon. This might also give you the butt-kicking you need to look at your relationships and make some decisions for your future. Good luck.
trolloperative Posted February 17, 2015 Posted February 17, 2015 (edited) If I were in your situation, I'd abort (since this child will greatly limit/degrade who you have relationships with in the future), never speak to this MM again, and leave my current BF. Edited February 17, 2015 by nychag
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