Emilia Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 No, I didn't try to talk about myself without prompting. I see that as being rude and arrogant. But maybe that's my culture and how I was raised. As a result, I stay quiet until asked and even then tend to keep my answers limited to avoid seeming arrogant about my accomplishments in life. But you're right she could be used to things the other way around, having people talk without prompting, and that's why I see her as the arrogant/rude one. I agree with ES. Just relax and have fun, this is far too early for decisions! I think you are at a disadvantage if you wait for being prompted, try the approach that you deem arrogant. You'll be surprised how much smoother the conversation will go and how much it picks up a natural rythm. 1
Maleficent Posted February 16, 2015 Posted February 16, 2015 I'm interested in her because I believe she can be more than what she portrays herself to be. However, if I misjudged her and she simply *is* the way that she has been acting up until now, then no, I'm not interested. So when I suggested you take a chill pill and continue to hang out with her to see if she wines down, you didn't think it was a good idea because...? It looks like you are asking us to give you an all or nothing kind of answer. Which we can't.
Author lv728n Posted February 16, 2015 Author Posted February 16, 2015 So when I suggested you take a chill pill and continue to hang out with her to see if she wines down, you didn't think it was a good idea because...? It looks like you are asking us to give you an all or nothing kind of answer. Which we can't. No, no...I think it is a good idea. I'm going to try it one more time with everyone's suggestions of just chilling out and trying for a different method of conversation, even though it'll be hard for me as I'm not used to it.
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