High_hopes Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 (edited) I broke up with this girl very recently. We dated for a very short time. I like her but in the end I am not 100% were right for each other. It's only been a few days. We have a lot of the same friends and wish things could remain friendly. Since we only dated a short time and we have mutual friends I don't see why we can't make some peace and then who knows maybe down the road something will spark again. It's valentines day and even though it's only been a few days is it absurd to want to do something nice, a gesture, maybe flowers with a nice note to throw up the white flag and making things right? Edited February 14, 2015 by High_hopes
Satu Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 Your relationship is over. No flowers, no note.
mightycpa Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 You will get your wish about friends in a while, but for now, DO NOT do anything that could be construed as romantic. Just let her be for a while, and respect her boundaries if she puts them up.
Author High_hopes Posted February 14, 2015 Author Posted February 14, 2015 Your relationship is over. No flowers, no note. I hear ya. Sends the wrong message. I bought her a new violin bow that can't be returned. Don't know why. Was going to put it in the middle of a bouquet of flowers and call it a ready for it........ready for it..... a bowquet ; ) get it.. Was really looking forward to that. Thought i'd just give her the bow anyway....peace offering.
towardthefuture Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 I hear ya. Sends the wrong message. I bought her a new violin bow that can't be returned. Don't know why. Was going to put it in the middle of a bouquet of flowers and call it a ready for it........ready for it..... a bowquet ; ) get it.. Was really looking forward to that. Thought i'd just give her the bow anyway....peace offering. That would be really clever and sweet if you were in a relationship. Are you sure you broke up with her? It sounds like you're trying to get her back. If not, definitely do not send her a 'bowquet'. It's not a peace offering it's a romantic gesture. She'll get the wrong idea
Author High_hopes Posted February 14, 2015 Author Posted February 14, 2015 (edited) That would be really clever and sweet if you were in a relationship. Are you sure you broke up with her? It sounds like you're trying to get her back. If not, definitely do not send her a 'bowquet'. It's not a peace offering it's a romantic gesture. She'll get the wrong idea Yes, we broke up but we weren't really in a relationship. Don't think either one of us consider us a couple. I know she didn't. It was new. Neither of us were dating other people but we didn't enter that phase. I told her simply that I didn't think it was going to work out. Am I trying to get her back? Not sure she was ever mine but maybe. Who knows. Maybe I just miss her. Maybe I just want to keep it open ended. Could totally backfire in my face too... Edited February 14, 2015 by High_hopes 1
Author High_hopes Posted February 14, 2015 Author Posted February 14, 2015 Couldn't hold out. I just sent her a text telling her I miss her. That is all I said. I miss you
Holmes85 Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 I broke up with this girl very recently. We dated for a very short time. I like her but in the end I am not 100% were right for each other. It's only been a few days. We have a lot of the same friends and wish things could remain friendly. Since we only dated a short time and we have mutual friends I don't see why we can't make some peace and then who knows maybe down the road something will spark again. It's valentines day and even though it's only been a few days is it absurd to want to do something nice, a gesture, maybe flowers with a nice note to throw up the white flag and making things right? I am going to say the same thing that I said in response to your previous two posts (in a different thread of course), you are very conflicted with what you want.
Author High_hopes Posted February 15, 2015 Author Posted February 15, 2015 I am going to say the same thing that I said in response to your previous two posts (in a different thread of course), you are very conflicted with what you want. no denying that..... ; )
darkbloom Posted February 15, 2015 Posted February 15, 2015 It would be pretty heartbreaking to receive a romantic gift like that if you don't want a relationship with her.
Author High_hopes Posted February 15, 2015 Author Posted February 15, 2015 (edited) It would be pretty heartbreaking to receive a romantic gift like that if you don't want a relationship with her. Didn't do that. Could have, would have but didn't.... I want to further our 'relationship' see what develops but she didn't seem like she did. Seemed like we wanted different things so I broke it off. She got upset and yelled at me. Actually a side to her I didn't know existed and one I do not like and worried me more.... This was just days ago. I miss her tonight. Edited February 15, 2015 by High_hopes
darkbloom Posted February 15, 2015 Posted February 15, 2015 Didn't do that. Could have, would have but didn't.... I want to further our 'relationship' see what develops but she didn't seem like she did. Seemed like we wanted different things so I broke it off. She got upset and yelled at me. Actually a side to her I didn't know existed and one I do not like and worried me more.... This was just days ago. I miss her tonight. My ex used to do big romantic gestures like what you're describing. He did not want a relationship with me anymore. It was basically like being dragged through hell everytime he would get my hopes up.
Author High_hopes Posted February 15, 2015 Author Posted February 15, 2015 My ex used to do big romantic gestures like what you're describing. He did not want a relationship with me anymore. It was basically like being dragged through hell everytime he would get my hopes up. ok...I didn't do it and like I said I wanted to further my involvement with this girl and I felt she didn't. Opposite. your ex didn't want it and still did those romantic things. Opposite opposite.... I did send her a text though..... probably wrong.
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