Natsu_Firefox Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 Hello guys. My gf of 5 months broke up with me in November last year. Though we kept contact heavily. We stopped talking at the beginning of December then I broke NC in January where she said she had a boyfriend who she loves. He is always coming to her house and stuff like that (were 17 so you know whats going down.). Anyway, Ive come to terms that she moved on and has another boyfriend and we will never get back together...not even if they break up and tried fo get back with me I dont even want to be friends with her. I do think about her and the times weve had and "them" and the times their having. I try to quicklu dispel of those thoughts though it doesnt work sometimes. The worst part is every few days I have a dream about her breaking up with him to get with me or her with him. Everytime I think Im over them I always see something I dont wanna see, like them kissing or picture of them. Does anyone have tips on how to stop this? PS. I see both of them everyday in school. I have class with her new boyfriend
Tolu2d Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 I understand your pain, as I still sometimes dream about my recent ex. What you are going through now is very painful, but it does get EASIER. Stat getting productive and start improving yourself, and then you may well get someone who you like much better. Stay strong and take each day at a time. It took me two weeks to even feel slightly normal again, but then when I found out she had a new partner and had moved on, it hit me like a freight train, but I'm starting to feel a bit better again. Embrace the pain as there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. With love, there is hurt, just like with life there is death. You are feeling bad now, but there are good and happy times ahead, that I can assure you. Stay strong, bro.
Holmes85 Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 Natsu_Firefox, The reason you are still dreaming about your Ex Girlfriend is because the breakup is still fresh, moreover your last contact with her was in January which was last month, you haven't given yourself enough time to distance yourself from her. You should remove her from everywhere (from social networks too) and put everything that reminds you of her somewhere out of your reach and start making some positive changes in your life, set goals and try to achieve them. You keep on moving forward with your life and if a thought about her hits you from time to time, remember she's not the person who you fell in love with, she left you to persue a relationship with someone else, to her you were not a priority, but an option. It's time to turn the tables on her, the only way you are going to turn the tables on her is when you make positive changes in your life and who knows in the process you meet someone who appreciates your attributes and stick with you for the long haul and isn't as flaky as this girl.
Author Natsu_Firefox Posted February 15, 2015 Author Posted February 15, 2015 I really appreaciate that. You stay strong too man
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