GoodDaze43 Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 My girlfriend and I just broke up, after having a few arguments about her male best friend staying over while he's in town. She ended up saying she don't know if she loves me and that she has feeling for him. Prior to finding out this I told her I want to be with her and do whatever it takes to make her happy. We broke up and right after she started tweeting things like "can't wait until April " "everything is falling into place "If you ask, me I'm ready" She also changed her profile picture to one of her touching his chest tattoo and another of just him. I'm very confused because I never did nothing wrong except get mad that he was staying with her and now he's gone back home. Has she really moved on this fast? Does she not have even some feelings for what we had? Is this some kind of game?
Ruby65 Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 Wow, that just sounds brutal. I'm so sorry you're having to go through that. It sounds like she's been emotionally unfaithful to you for a long time, otherwise she wouldn't be saying and doing the things she is right now. That makes her a cheater and a liar -- and although you probably can't see it yet, you're lucky to be free of such a person. This is not someone you want to build a future with, this isn't someone who can be trusted with your heart. Best course of action for you is to cut off this stream of information coming at you. Do you really need to torture yourself, reading her messages to him? Block her on every site you use. Protect yourself -- right now, ignorance is bliss. Best to focus on you and your own healing. She's off in the fantasy-filled lala land of new romance and there's no point trying to work things out right now. Spend time with your friends, surround yourself with people who love and support you. Lean on them right now -- don't expect HER to be a source of comfort, right now she's only going to bring you pain. 1
Kinetica84 Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 My girlfriend and I just broke up, after having a few arguments about her male best friend staying over while he's in town. She ended up saying she don't know if she loves me and that she has feeling for him. Prior to finding out this I told her I want to be with her and do whatever it takes to make her happy. We broke up and right after she started tweeting things like "can't wait until April " "everything is falling into place "If you ask, me I'm ready" She also changed her profile picture to one of her touching his chest tattoo and another of just him. I'm very confused because I never did nothing wrong except get mad that he was staying with her and now he's gone back home. Has she really moved on this fast? Does she not have even some feelings for what we had? Is this some kind of game? Wow man that is so harsh. Hate to say dude but she has emotionally checked out and that is normally terminal. Best you can do right is ERASE her from you life. cut all forms of contact, get rid of anything she ever bought and start healing. It is going to hurt, you will have dark days but the sooner you start the sooner you're through it. I wish you all the best but there is no saving this one i don't think. Once a woman has made her mind up that is that. Sorry for your pain bud.
seminoles84 Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 This sounds very familiar. Did you already start a thread? Didn't get any advice?
mightycpa Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 This sounds very familiar. Did you already start a thread? Didn't get any advice? He's in the discovery phase right now. He sees the end from a lot of different perspectives, thus the multiple posts with recognizable but different stories. GD4 said he'd do whatever it takes to make her happywhich means that for right now he's got to let her bone the new dude, and to take that time to see if he can live with it somehow. We all know the answer, but he isn't there yet. Let it all out GD4. Keep writing, but use the same thread, and bump your story with new insights if it gets lost in the crowd. Good luck.
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