krooton25 Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 (edited) guy in my class Whenever he enters the room, i can tell that he looks where I sit. And when i sit somewhere else, his eyes wanders around the room? And when I talk to my friend, i can see from the corner of my eyes that he looks at me he usually sits a row behind me and probably "listens" to what I say. Hmmm... few months ago, while we were talking casually, he just suddenly asked me if something was bothering me and if I had relationship trouble. And I told him about my ex boyfriend who came back to me and I was so heartbroken LOL...but then he cheated. Something like that. Then, surprisingly after that he kept on asking me about my situation and asking me how I was. Then he told me that he's tired of his present girlfriend's attitude. we are not close friends. But we talk occasionally, it's really weird that he's the one asking me to open up... A month later, he asked me again about my relationship out of the blue. I said i ended things with my ex bf and that he chose to get married to another girl. While him! he said that he's emotionally cheating with his girlfriend and that he plans to break up with her. He said that they've been together for so long and the passion is just not there anymore. Then i said, i had the same problem with my ex. BUT, i heard from some people that he was seeing this other girl from school, too. And i saw them a few times flirting, so I teased him if he was cheating. and he said no.. The thing is... nowadays, he kept on looking at me EVERY freaking time. Whenever we are in one place, he would stare or glance at me. I see this on the corner of my eyes but i try not to look back. Then he complimented my hair..he said he likes it and why did I dye it brown. He is obviously flirting with me. I didn't flirt back though coz I don't want to give him an idea that I am interested in him for one reason: I'm not sure if he still has a gf and I think he is seeing this other unknown girl. Then he got nervous when we bumped into each other the other day, he was on the other end of the street. He stopped walking and waved at me awkwardly. i don't want to think he likes me coz i think he likes someone else but I'm confused. I had a crush on him ever since first day of class, even those days when i was still in a relationship. It's just kinda weird how he notices me now and hated me before.. it's starting to get creepy that I always do notice him looking. like one time i was tying my hair back...he was staring at me. Edited February 14, 2015 by krooton25
mario_C Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 Sounds like you need to take a stand. If you like him, talk to him about it because he clearly likes you. If he didn't like you before, he does now - people can change their minds! And either go out with him or cut it off.
elaine567 Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 guy in my class Whenever he enters the room, i can tell that he looks where I sit. And when i sit somewhere else, his eyes wanders around the room? And when I talk to my friend, i can see from the corner of my eyes that he looks at me he usually sits a row behind me and probably "listens" to what I say. Hmmm... few months ago, while we were talking casually, he just suddenly asked me if something was bothering me and if I had relationship trouble. And I told him about my ex boyfriend who came back to me and I was so heartbroken LOL...but then he cheated. Something like that. Then, surprisingly after that he kept on asking me about my situation and asking me how I was. Then he told me that he's tired of his present girlfriend's attitude. we are not close friends. But we talk occasionally, it's really weird that he's the one asking me to open up... A month later, he asked me again about my relationship out of the blue. I said i ended things with my ex bf and that he chose to get married to another girl. While him! he said that he's emotionally cheating with his girlfriend and that he plans to break up with her. He said that they've been together for so long and the passion is just not there anymore. Then i said, i had the same problem with my ex. BUT, i heard from some people that he was seeing this other girl from school, too. And i saw them a few times flirting, so I teased him if he was cheating. and he said no.. The thing is... nowadays, he kept on looking at me EVERY freaking time. Whenever we are in one place, he would stare or glance at me. I see this on the corner of my eyes but i try not to look back. Then he complimented my hair..he said he likes it and why did I dye it brown. He is obviously flirting with me. I didn't flirt back though coz I don't want to give him an idea that I am interested in him for one reason: I'm not sure if he still has a gf and I think he is seeing this other unknown girl. Then he got nervous when we bumped into each other the other day, he was on the other end of the street. He stopped walking and waved at me awkwardly. i don't want to think he likes me coz i think he likes someone else but I'm confused. I had a crush on him ever since first day of class, even those days when i was still in a relationship. It's just kinda weird how he notices me now and hated me before.. it's starting to get creepy that I always do notice him looking. like one time i was tying my hair back...he was staring at me. Guy who has been cheating on his gf, gets interested in a girl who is not responding to his flirting... He sees you as a challenge and is confused as to why you have not fallen under his spell, that is why he looks at you. He thought previously you were little Miss Besotted in the corner who he could lift his little finger and you would come running; he chose not to. Now you are playing it cool; he is now interested... BUT Guys who see cheating as not that big a deal are not to be trusted, remember that.
d0nnivain Posted February 14, 2015 Posted February 14, 2015 If you don't know if he has a GF, the 1st thing you need to do is find out for sure. If he doesn't since you have a crush on him & he's clearly into you, the next time you see him, communicate to him that it's "safe" for him to ask you out because you will not turn him down. My suggestion, get to class early, save a seat near you, when he comes into the classroom, wave him over. Start by saying "I heard you broke up with your GF." See where that takes the conversation.
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