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There's this cute girl that always comes to my work we've talked a few time and we seem to get along. She always smiles at me. We can only talk for a couple mins because I mean I am at work. How should I approach asking her out? And also I was thinking about waiting until at least a few more times until we get to know each other a little better. What does everything think?

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Just ask to grab a coffee on your break. Totally casual like. Then use that to springboard you to asking for the real date. I agree with the previous poster not to wait any longer. Women like men who act, and if it takes them a while we question why.

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I would like to undestand the logic of why you should wait. Please explain.

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I just didn't want to think of me as a creep cuz I don't know her well, that's all. Cuz we've only talked a couple times

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I just didn't want to think of me as a creep cuz I don't know her well, that's all. Cuz we've only talked a couple times

You're only a creep if she doesn't find you attractive, or if you do something socially unacceptable, like asking her to come to your house to look at porn.

 

Coffee is a easy and "safe". The worst she can do is say no. No reason to wait to ask otherwise.

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