dumbass2 Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 Interested to hear some experiences on here that some might have had with having an ex girlfriend or boyfriend that broke up with you, come back into your life and you suspect they a narcissist or at least have an abnormal amount of the traits of one and what happened and how did it finally end?
NopeNah Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 Just look at ALL of my posts from 2009-now.
Downtown Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Her having a few drinks and then going kick and knocking on doors down the hotel hallway and then trying to go out the door naked is drama. Telling me her ex had been texting her and he said he's coming over right now and saying we both have to leave is drama. [Your 8/29/14 post.] DA, is this woman -- the one you wrote about last August -- the Ex that is now trying to "come back into your life"? If so, is she the one you are wanting to discuss with me and other LS members, as you indicated in your post on Male's thread? If that is true, it is difficult to reconcile your view that she craved drama with your statement (8/18/14 post) that "We didn't argue hardly at all. There were no yelling fights."
TashaTudor Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 Hoovering is a narcissist tendency after no contact. It's a way of sucking you back into more abuse. Also, one of her narcissistic supplies might by moving on, so you might be the replacement supply. Narcissists keep a selection of people as "supply" and keep them on rotation as needed. Its probably just your turn. Look up Hoovering. Good luck. 4
No Limit Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 A friend of mine was in a very short relationship with a narcissist (only like 1 month). It was he who broke up after he cheated on her and then tried to get at her by texting her - luckily she held firm and never responded. Never heard of that fella again.
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