GoodDaze43 Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 Me and my ex would have been together for a year but things fell apart. I have always been a very busy guy I work 2 jobs/7 days a week & also travel the world. One day met this girl and we fell for one another, I try my best too see her when I can & always done nice things. I would see her 3x/week if i could, But as time went on I got more busy at work and travel that I was only able to see her once maybe twice a week. She has been very sad because she out here by herself just graduated and is looking for a job, she has only one friend and spends most of her time in the apartment by herself. Recently one her guy bestfriends came to town and he will be staying with her I got jealous and didn't like the idea. We got in a few arguments as the week went on she began to drift away stop talking to me, putting breakup quotes and lyrics and didn't act the same. When he finally left she told me she doesn't know if she wan't to be with me, she feels lost. I told her I'm willing to take shifts off for her and do anything because this is our first serious complication but she didn't want to hear it, she just wants space. I asked her was there another guy she likes and she finally admitted that she began to have feelings for her bestfriend when he stayed with her she said they never had sex but she grind on him in the club even though she kept telling me no. She said maybe the feelings for him were temporary. I ended up saying this is over. A few hours after I left she changed her status to a pic of her touching his chest. She seemed very happy with us until this guy came
Satu Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 (edited) After Mr Unavailable, she maybe wants someone who's actually there. She loved you. You loved your job. Learn from this. Edited February 13, 2015 by Satu
MovingOnIsHard Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 I think she emotionally checked out as soon as there was little time spend between you two.. and having her guy best friend be conveniently there when you aren't just made it easier for her to be swayed the other way. If it were me, i'd question the fact that he stayed with her in her apartment. you cant blame yourself. You're a busy guy and you always have been.. she wasnt quite in the same boat as you. You're in different stages in life.. you're busy with work and she isnt. She's got way too much time on her hands. I guess your lifestyles weren't compatible to begin with. Also, she seems really immature.. what's up with these chicks being dramatic with posting breakup stuff on social media? And she posted pics of her and him? Also, it sounds like that guy may have been more than just a bestfriend... there had to be some romantic feelings brewing there before. Im female, have a few guy friends. Even if we were sleeping in the same room, no way id kiss and make out with them. they're like brothers to me.
mightycpa Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 World traveler vs. college grad with few friends looking for a job? Is that even a contest? I worked for a Bix Six firm when I was single, went everywhere, it was the time of my life, and single available women were not an issue. You have to hunt in the forest you find yourself, not the one where you're never there.
d0nnivain Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 I think she wanted more time then you had. You gave her all the time you had but you two had different priorities. She wants a BF who is more like a lap dog who comes when called.
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