PVincent Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 Hello, my name is Vincent. I'm a 26yr old male, and about 2 months ago an incredibly attractive girl showed me a smile that's given me a very specific form of heart arrhythmia. We worked together, until just recently, and until the first time we worked on a project together my feelings for her were based solely on her demeanor and appearance, something casual, easy to walk away from. When we talked, it was about things you generally don't discuss with an acquaintance. I learned about her likes and hates, aspirations, living situation, and about the traumas that define her as a person, as well as her preference for the fairer sex. I thought I was the only person in my life I'd ever know with problems like the ones she was describing, things that we discussed in greater detail over the months. So close, yet impossibly far away. To keep a potentially long story a little shorter, I'm doing what I can to accept the hypocrisy and futility that pursuing a romantic relationship would involve, but if anyone familiar with this kind of thing has advice, I'm all ears.
OrangeParty Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 Not much you can do. It's really no difference than if she is straight. The fact is that she is not romantically interested in you. Yes, you fell for her, but it is not something she can reciprocate. It's just the same as falling for a woman who doesn't see you that way.
rester Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 She's unavailable to date you is all you really need to know. It doesn't matter if she's gay or straight if she's unavailable. What would you do if you fell for a married woman? If she were married to a man she'd still be unavailable. You just need to accept the fact you'll never have a romantic relationship with her. It's nothing personal.
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