janetl Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 Are you or you know someone in this situation: have been married a few years. Have a kid or two, grown up, almost ready to leave the nest in a year or two. Have had an affair or two several years ago. Your wife forgave you, you worked on your marriage, perhaps there is some left over effect of that. But life has moved on and you have been having an average married family life for las few years. Now you meet someone and fall in love. You two have real connection, real care. Something you have not had, felt in a long time, may be ever. There's that missing excitement but also the real genuine feeling. What do you do? Wait for the kids to get out and then divorce? Let the old infidelity demons take over and stay in the affair as long as you can? Bite the bullet and tell your AP that this is not meant to be and stick to marriage? Anyone with this story, please share.
beach Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 Are you or you know someone in this situation: have been married a few years. Have a kid or two, grown up, almost ready to leave the nest in a year or two. Have had an affair or two several years ago. Your wife forgave you, you worked on your marriage, perhaps there is some left over effect of that. But life has moved on and you have been having an average married family life for las few years. Now you meet someone and fall in love. You two have real connection, real care. Something you have not had, felt in a long time, may be ever. There's that missing excitement but also the real genuine feeling. What do you do? Wait for the kids to get out and then divorce? Let the old infidelity demons take over and stay in the affair as long as you can? Bite the bullet and tell your AP that this is not meant to be and stick to marriage? Anyone with this story, please share. Just read the infidelity threads. Plenty of situations there to keep you occupied for years of reading. What are you looking for? Are you an OW or a spouse?
lolablue17 Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 Decide what ever you decide, but dont cheat! Your wife forgave you but another cheating can ruin her, because she carries some extra vulnerability with her, even she's not aware of that. It's easy and tempting to become a scumbag. Keep you dignity and human values. Don't cheat. 2
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