GuskeGee Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 Ok, so I just felt the urge to share my feelings with you guys. I have a group of friends, I love them all and love hanging out with them, but for a longer time, it's been a bit irritating that all of them are in a relationship. Now I consider myself attractive and I have dated many times in my life, it's been four years since my last relationship and more than anything I feel that I'm ready to have a girlfriend again. However, the problem is my friends have changed and have become less adventurous and more laid back. They don't want to party each week, they don't want to go to clubs to meet new people etc. I'm at a point in my life where I want to meet someone special, but the search feels ridiculously tiring right now, considering most of my friends don't even want to go anywhere with me. Me and my best buddy used to hang out and meet girls and all that. He was the only one I could count on to at least go somewhere with me, but he has become very boring as of late because of his new girlfriend. I feel like I'm stuck and I'm blocked in some way or another. If I want to find someone special, I need to go out by myself, but I've never tried it before. I just wish they'd stop constantly hanging out with their significant other and just support me a bit
preraph Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 Well, they probably can't do that without endangering their relationships. Now, you can invite them ALL out with you somewhere and that way you have a busy little group and maybe some of the girls will invite some of their friends and that sort of thing. Instead of thinking about bars to go to alone, join a class where women would be, interactive stuff like cooking or dancing. Volunteer someplace where you'd meet people a couple of hours a week. Take a weekend retail job where women would be shopping. Or even a shift at a restaurant because there's always young women in retail and restaurants, plus you meet the customers as well. It's a good way to expand your social circle in general. Don't give up!
devilish innocent Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 I think places like clubs are geared more toward younger people who are just looking to have fun. I'm not saying nobody's ever met their future spouse that way, but you're more likely to meet them through work or mutual friends. The clubs are better for finding short flings. I don't know how old you are, but it sounds like you're reaching an age where you're outgrowing the clubs. Your friends are no longer interested in them, and you're ready to meet somebody special. I would branch out and try other methods of meeting people. Maybe your friends girlfriends can introduce you to people.
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