High_hopes Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Should a guy do ALL the chasing all the time even if the women doesn't take her own initiative to show appreciation?
bohica Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Should a guy do ALL the chasing all the time even if the women doesn't take her own initiative to show appreciation? Ha. No. Not in my opinion. Keeping me guessing drives me crazy. Going through it now. 2
mightycpa Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 No. Don't chase. Be with a person, show your intentions through your actions. Pay attention to the feedback, and if she's not having a good time with you, then move on to the next one. If she's having a good time, but she's not raising the level every once in a while, respect that too. Don't go looking for relationships. Let them form naturally and slowly, and you'll be a lot better off.
GTR King Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 You need to read her singles etc.. If she is interested she will love it when you text her 1st and organise dates etc... Some girls to text 1st but not all of them will tho... Don't rush things they will come naturally over time 1
smackie9 Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 I like the push and pull, the dance.....flirtation, then be aloof, then come back and tease. I agree being myserious is key, also fun.
d0nnivain Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 No. There are no gender rules about who has to initiate. But anything that is too one sides isn't healthy. 1
CrystalShine2011 Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 It should be an equal chase! There should be 100% on both sides. 2
Author High_hopes Posted February 12, 2015 Author Posted February 12, 2015 I think it should be a two way street and if the women likes you she will let you know. She will not keep you guessing. I also think when you meet someone you really like whether your a man or women your anxious for the phone to ring. I like the push pull to but it is a two way street. Let me know you like it. Don't always push. If there is too much push then the chase will end.
fluidian Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Should a guy do ALL the chasing all the time even if the women doesn't take her own initiative to show appreciation? No - if there's nothing from her that shows appreciation and effort, I get rid of her pretty quick, at least if you want a long-term relationship. Long relationships need to be a two way street...so you might as well stack the deck in your favor by picking people that seem to at least appreciate you and what you're doing...
No Limit Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 No. Push and pull leads nowhere anyway and why bother with someone who isn't interested in you?
Leigh 87 Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 I prefer the guy text me first for the first couple of days. Then I'll initiate a text but I'll still let him do it most of the time. I'll text and call first perhaps 2 to every 4 times he does it..... But my responses show a lot of interest. Even if he has to initiate, I'll make it loud and clear that I'm into him.
todreaminblue Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 I feel a guy should make the first move there shouldnt be any games in return though.....if a woman likes a guy it shouldnt be push pull....but genuine interest in reciprocation...if a guy asks for a first date there's nothing wrong with the woman setting up the second...and then turn about.....i think it is about equality in this respect...dating should be fun and mutual interaction is needed for it to be fun..shouldnt be any ambiguity in knowing where you stand with a woman or a guy when dating it should feel easy and natural...deb
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