smg15 Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 I' m not too skilled in picking up si gns when a woman is interested so I figure I would ask here. It's a diner I been going to in the morning that's in the same building where I work and the woman who takes my order everyday is a few years younger. So this morning she asked me......Do u work on the weekends? Is she trying to find out my availability or just making small talk?
Toodaloo Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 She is making conversation. Could be either. Ask her out if you are interested. If she says no you haven't lost anything. Just shrug, smile and carry on as normal. If she says yes... enjoy your date!
carhill Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Expect that everyone in a sales related job is interacting to both perpetuate and improve their job. Is the diner open on the weekends? I mention this because my exW's sister and her H owned a similar diner and sis was always super friendly with the patrons. Why? Well, their business was married to the building and they wanted as many people as possible to stay in the building and eat at their place rather than going down the street, since the restaurant business is brutal! The same happened when her young and quite attractive and single daughter was working there. It's business. Young attractive females get men to buy more. It works. Sure, ask her out but don't expect anything. One thing to think about is would you have asked her out, or thought about it, if she hadn't shown any personal interest.....?
fluidian Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 I'd expect it to be small talk, and I'd probably not ask her out, because you likely go their quite frequently and it could make it weird...there are droves of people out there...ask one out that won't make a part of your life weird.
mightycpa Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 So this morning she asked me......Do u work on the weekends? Is she trying to find out my availability or just making small talk? You know, younger women are not aliens from another galaxy that might be difficult to communicate with... they're just people, and interested in you or not, this shouldn't be too hard to discern. Scenario 1 ...by the way, do you work on weekends? Sometimes. Why do you ask? ... well, the diner is generally closed on weekends, but the owner is thinking about opening for breakfast. We're asking all of our good customers to see how much interest there might be in something like that. Scenario 2 ...by the way, do you work on the weekends? Sometimes. Why do you ask? ... well, I belong to this singles group and we meet to go do things every Saturday. We want to expand the group and you looked like someone who might be a good fit. Scenario 3 ...by the way, do you work on the weekends? Sometimes. Why do you ask? ... oh, I don't know. no reason. Well, do you work weekends? ...no What do you like to do for fun? etc. Conversation is the key, my friend. The way you find out about others' motives is to draw them out. So how did the rest of that conversation go? Do you work on the weekends? (by the way, I don't have any romantic interest. Just thought I'd clear that up.) 1
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